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Can one be heterosexual while having a tranny fetish?

post #1 of 81
2/16/08 at 4:13am
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I consider myself to be a straight guy, but I have this thing for trannys.

When I was a teenager, it all started with those phone sex ads that would be in the back of HUSTLER. I saw one for a tranny sexline, and I was amazed how convincing--or so I thought--this one tranny looked. She had some amazing tits, great curves, and a supple ass. Not to mention a womb ferret that was pretty prominent. I couldn't take my eyes off her. Eventually, I got bored looking at her, and the rest of the tranny ads didn't do anything for me. I got to dive in my straight fantasies of Jenna and her friends.

I shook that infatuation out, and didn't think anything about that picture until years later when I was U.S. Sailor stationed in San Diego. A buddy and I went across the border to Tijuana to have a good time. We barhopped along, and went to various strip clubs. We stopped in one called Bambi's because the guy in front of the bar who invited everyone to come in with no cover charge reminded us of Cheech Marin's performance in FROM DUSK TIL DAWN.

My buddy and I had a couple of Tecates, and these two women sat in our laps. Mine was absolutely gorgeous, and I didn't hesitate to pay for some sex.

We went upstairs into this dark room that has these fuck boothes along the walls. We got into one, and she took off my clothes. I started to feel all over her body, and there was a discrepency in her crotch area. I felt a bulge...

...to sum this encounter up: I played The Crying Game, and consider myself victorious.

I realize this might a creepy thread, but I honestly want to start a serious dialouge about this. Should I be considered bi-sexual because of this? Its weird because I don't find guys sexually attractive at all. I mean, if a tranny is obvious I'm not interested, but if she has the right feminine qualities...I'll buckle. No one in my life knows about this. Not even the buddy who I went to Tijuana with(he just chilled in the bar). So I can't really talk to anyone about it because its strange.

Any thoughts from fellow chewers about this?
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post #2 of 81
2/16/08 at 4:17am
Awesome. Just fucking awesome.
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post #3 of 81
2/16/08 at 4:24am
I'd start worrying less about what to classify yourself sexually, and more about where you're getting that sex. At least your chewer name finally makes sense.

But Anderson is right... this is an awesome thread.
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post #4 of 81
2/16/08 at 4:55am
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Yea, you're right about that. Shopping for sex in Tijuana can be pretty wreckless.

It is pretty funny, though. I've been to some whorehouses there, and its strange. The walls be will adjoined with approving certificates meeting standards of sanitation. While this gives me a little piece of mind; the buzz of my sexual id is killed because I'm not going to have dirty, dirty sex with some whore. Just clean, sterile sex with her.
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post #5 of 81
2/16/08 at 5:10am
I guess my snap answer to the question would be no. On the other hand, trannies generally tend to think of themselves as women, and it appears that you're attracted to them as women. So the only real, honest answer is "I don't know".

Congratulations on asking one of the most complicated sexual questions I've ever heard.
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post #6 of 81
2/16/08 at 5:11am
I wouldn't worry so much about whether or not you are "heterosexual" or "homosexual" or whatever. You like trannies. More power to you. There are tons of trannies out there who need loving, so get to it. Just, you know, watch out for AIDS.
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post #7 of 81
2/16/08 at 5:40am
I don't know what you are, but you sure as hell aren't completely heterosexual dude.
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post #8 of 81
2/16/08 at 5:52am
I don't think it matters. I think situations like yours prove that words like heterosexual and homosexual have become loaded and simply used to feverishly label people out of paranoia.

That said, I feel bad that if you brought this to any one of your friends in real life, they'd probably disown you or kill you. Good thing message boards and grouphug.us exist.
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post #9 of 81
2/16/08 at 5:55am
Can I ask, did you interact with her "discrepency"? Or did you just concentrate on the obvious female parts?

I'm just wondering if you had a good time inspite of the cock, or it added to the experience.
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post #10 of 81
2/16/08 at 6:11am
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I went down on her, and gave her a reacharound while doing it doggy.

And yes, it enhanced the sex quite a bit.
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post #11 of 81
2/16/08 at 6:31am
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Yea, I think I may have answered my question with that last post.
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post #12 of 81
2/16/08 at 6:31am
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Originally Posted by GET AIDS NOW! View Post
I went down on her, and gave her a reacharound while doing it doggy. And yes, it enhanced the sex quite a bit.
Yeah, um...I really don't think you're completely straight.

But rather than trying to determine if you're strictly heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual, I suggest you take a look at the Kinsey Scale. The basic idea is, there aren't discrete categories, but continuous gradations.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_Scale
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post #13 of 81
2/16/08 at 7:22am
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I went down on her...
Unless your name is David Aceveda, I'd say that you dig the dudes.
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post #14 of 81
2/16/08 at 7:29am
Who gives a fuck about labels?
You are having fun, not hurting anyone. Go nuts!
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post #15 of 81
2/16/08 at 9:05am
It doesn't sound to me like you're completely straight either, but what of it? It doesn't matter as long as no one's getting hurt. But you really need to be careful and use protection (keep it clean, fellas!), and not be looking for sex in skeevey places. I think what's a bigger concern isn't that you aren't totally straight or that you had great sex with a she-male - the bigger concern is the safety and disease issue. A she-male can slip a condom on just the same as you can, remember that.
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post #16 of 81
2/16/08 at 9:27am
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Originally Posted by Matt OCallaghan View Post
Go nuts!
Sounds like he has.
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post #17 of 81
2/16/08 at 9:47am
Best thread in months.
And no, you are not heterosexual. Not after going down on him.

You just need to accept your new possibilities in sex and explore your options.
*Wailing Sax*
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post #18 of 81
2/16/08 at 9:58am
Actually, this is the only part of your posts that has me worried, and it's kind of what I touched on in my first reply (I know, I'm sorry to harp on this, but I think this is a much bigger deal):

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Originally Posted by GET AIDS NOW! View Post
I've been to some whorehouses there, and its strange. The walls be will adjoined with approving certificates meeting standards of sanitation. While this gives me a little piece of mind; the buzz of my sexual id is killed because I'm not going to have dirty, dirty sex with some whore. Just clean, sterile sex with her.
Okay, that worries me. I don't think you need to worry about whether you're gay, straight, bi, all of the above or none of the above. Again, who cares, as long as you're both consenting adults and no one's being harmed. But this really does worry me that the displayed sanitation certificates kill your buzz, and that you'd prefer it if it was dirty. Again, I'm sorry, I know I sound like I'm harping on you, but I think that's something you really do need to explore - why a more dangerous sexual situation is something you'd be more into, and why an obvious cleanliness standard dampens the excitement for you. I'm more concerned that you're not being careful, not whomever you're not being careful with.

I saw this really sweet, lovely guy I worked with back in the early 90's waste away and die from AIDS - it's not pretty, and I'm sure you know it can happen to anyone, your sexual orientation doesn't matter. Please, just maybe talk to someone about why unsafe practices are more exciting for you than being safe.
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post #19 of 81
2/16/08 at 9:59am
I don't think he means dirty as in "unhealthy", but as in "illicit". If he's doing it for the illicit thrill of having sex with a prostitute, I can see how having licenses and certificates on the wall might detract from that expectation.
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post #20 of 81
2/16/08 at 10:11am
Another post made immensely more enjoyable by the avatar.

It really is too bad that while we all have our kinks (and by "we," I of course mean "people other than me") you've got an attraction you can't even talk about with close friends. Not that I blame you for keeping it mum.
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post #21 of 81
2/16/08 at 10:11am
I getcha, I see what he means. But it still concerns me that the safety aspect is killing the thrill for him. (EDIT - that was to Dickson)
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post #22 of 81
2/16/08 at 10:58am
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I getcha, I see what he means. But it still concerns me that the safety aspect is killing the thrill for him. (EDIT - that was to Dickson)
The same can be said for sex between a lot of people, in general. I know people gay, bi, and straight who act like they almost hate sex because of needing to use protection, and then I know idiots who throw caution to the wind and go crazy.

But if it's an issue of wanting illicit sex, is there any way of finding a regular in your area and meeting up with them somewhere? I'm assuming that you're not quite ready to dive in headfirst and go to a GLBT bar(since you said nobody else knows about this) in order to sate this fetish, but I'm sure there are plenty of ways to do it in a more discreet manner.

Just have fun and be careful, and you should be fine.
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post #23 of 81
2/16/08 at 10:59am
Once you have a cock in your mouth, even for just a moment, the "Am I heterosexual?" question seems a bit foolish.

*Tranny Sex*
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post #24 of 81
2/16/08 at 11:25am
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Lisa, I sack and suit up when it comes to beating guts. I may walk on the wild side, but I'm not stupid.

Its what Richard said, those certificates take the illicit thrill out of it. Its like I was at a doctor's office instead of a whorehouse. Sorry if that previous post came out pretty gross. That whorehouse was different from Bambi's, by the way. Bambi's was a strip club with a very accomodating VIP section. These places do stress safe sex, its just that I found it odd that a whorehouse would have certificates and licenses on their walls. I mean, how do these inspections work? Is it one inspector fucking all the whores, or is it a whole crew going at it? It would seem that one inspector fucking 14 whores would be kinda daunting. Also: what consists of a whorehouse inspection checksheet? "Anus: go or no go", "Pussy:tight, loose, or cavernous"?

By the way, this was almost a couple of years ago. I went to TJ a few more times after that, but the "spending all my money in one night" got kinda old.

And about going down on the shim, well, thats hard to explain. It was just a heat of the moment thing. I just thought of it as a really phallic freakish looking clitoris with skin chandliers hanging off it.

Boom! I'm still a 1 on the Kinsey Scale.
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post #25 of 81
2/16/08 at 11:46am
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Originally Posted by GET AIDS NOW! View Post
I mean, how do these inspections work? Is it one inspector fucking all the whores, or is it a whole crew going at it? It would seem that one inspector fucking 14 whores would be kinda daunting. Also: what consists of a whorehouse inspection checksheet? "Anus: go or no go", "Pussy:tight, loose, or cavernous"?
They're inspections, not test drives. They test for diseases and such, not to make sure they're good at what they do.

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And about going down on the shim, well, thats hard to explain. It was just a heat of the moment thing. I just thought of it as a really phallic freakish looking clitoris with skin chandliers hanging off it.
Don't hurt anything making that leap there.
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post #26 of 81
2/16/08 at 12:16pm
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Originally Posted by Matt OCallaghan View Post
Who gives a fuck about labia?
You are having fun, not hurting anyone. Grope nuts!
Fixed.
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post #27 of 81
2/16/08 at 12:16pm
My advice to you on this:

Read a lot of Dan Savage.
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post #28 of 81
2/16/08 at 1:36pm
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Originally Posted by GET AIDS NOW! View Post
Lisa, I sack and suit up when it comes to beating guts. I may walk on the wild side, but I'm not stupid.

Its what Richard said, those certificates take the illicit thrill out of it. Its like I was at a doctor's office instead of a whorehouse. Sorry if that previous post came out pretty gross.
No, I get you - glad to hear that you are being safe, that was my main concern. Didn't mean to take your post the wrong way. Just keep being safe, okay?
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post #29 of 81
2/16/08 at 2:39pm
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Boom! I'm still a 1 on the Kinsey Scale.
What a winnah!
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post #30 of 81
2/16/08 at 3:03pm
The major assumption underlying Get's entire approach to this situation is that there's something wrong with being gay and transgendered people. He even seems to be getting off a bit on reporting his naughty, naughty behavior to the rest of us. He wants us to be horrified, to mock him, and to affirm his belief that he is behaving inappropriately. Sorry, Get - if you're practicing safer sex, there's nothing wrong with what you're doing. There's nothing wrong with being gay, bisexual, or digging transgendered people. I know gay people, bisexual people, transgendered people, and the people who love them (note that I don't say the people who use them), and they're as well-adjusted and happy as anyone else, generally speaking. You've clearly twisted yourself up into a little, dirty knot in which you get off on the wrongness of the situation - you believe that you shouldn't be engaging in this risky behavior with this type of person and you want the rest of us to believe it, too. I would imagine that it has almost nothing to do with transgendered people themselves and everything to do with what you perceive as the sheer perversity of transgendered people.

So wrap it up, make sure she wraps it up, and get over it (though getting over it will probably ruin it for you).
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post #31 of 81
2/16/08 at 3:20pm
Did you trade numbers afterwards?


Edit: Also, did you cry when you put her/his dick in your mouth?


These are serious questions.
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post #32 of 81
2/16/08 at 3:28pm
I sucked on a penis am I gay???
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post #33 of 81
2/16/08 at 4:02pm
If you were thinking of some hot poon while sucking said penis, the answer to that question may surprise you!












lol I'm joking the answer is always yes.
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post #34 of 81
2/16/08 at 4:41pm
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My advice to you on this:

Read a lot of Dan Savage.
This is good advice for all humans.

And, Zooey, you're right, but unfortunately there are still a bunch of guys in this thread who popped in just to say "you're gay lolol," so I think the illicitness is still there.
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post #35 of 81
2/16/08 at 4:43pm
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My advice to you on this:

Read a lot of Dan Savage.

Get AIDS, This is indeed the person with the potential to seriously, thoughtfully answer your question. His most recent of weekly podcasts, found over at www.thestranger.com deals with this situation directly and straight forward. Check it out. I think he offers that yes, you can be straight and be interested in transvestites and transgendered people, because Teh Gayz aren't all that interested in 'Chicks With Dicks', but rather full on males.

He also makes a good point about a man's love affair with his penis that can sometimes leap the rails and move onto a love of other men's penises, and the infatuation ends there.
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post #36 of 81
2/16/08 at 4:50pm
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This is good advice for all humans.

And, Zooey, you're right, but unfortunately there are still a bunch of guys in this thread who popped in just to say "you're gay lolol," so I think the illicitness is still there.
Oh, I agree, James. The allure is, I think, in large part due to the illicitness. That doesn't mean that being gay, bisexual, or interested in transgendered people is wrong, it just means that there are a lot of people who think it's wrong, which is probably what's fueling a lot of Get's interest in this particular behavior.

I'm going to fourth (?) the suggestion that Get should be reading piles of Dan Savage and perhaps even writing to him, though I imagine that everyone's favorite faggot tires of hearing this question.
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post #37 of 81
2/16/08 at 6:33pm
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post #38 of 81
2/16/08 at 7:11pm
I think the base answer is: you're not 100% homosexual, but you're certainly not 100% heterosexual either.
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post #39 of 81
2/16/08 at 9:33pm
GET AIDS NOW!! - I don't think you're gay, maybe not even technically bi. I think you're the kind of person who would be eating a bowl of delicious rice pudding, get to the bottom, find a roach and eat around it. Most people would just put the bowl down and walk away.
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post #40 of 81
2/16/08 at 9:39pm
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GET AIDS NOW!! - I don't think you're gay, maybe not even technically bi. I think you're the kind of person who would be eating a bowl of delicious rice pudding, get to the bottom, find a roach and eat around it. Most people would just put the bowl down and walk away.
But what if the roach had a giant erect penis?

See? Tricky!

P.S. Your metaphor doesn't work either because, by GET AIDS NOW!!!'s admition, he ate the roach... and he loved it.
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post #41 of 81
2/16/08 at 10:24pm
Thread Starter 
Thanks for the candid answers everyone! Especially MissZooey, James Kimball, LisaNY, and Captain Oates.

I use to read Dan Savage a long time ago on The Onion, and I will probably pick him back up. Awesome suggestion.
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post #42 of 81
2/16/08 at 10:33pm
Best Thread of '08 Candidate.
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post #43 of 81
2/16/08 at 11:19pm
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Originally Posted by HunterRose View Post
GET AIDS NOW!! - I don't think you're gay, maybe not even technically bi. I think you're the kind of person who would be eating a bowl of delicious rice pudding, get to the bottom, find a roach and eat around it. Most people would just put the bowl down and walk away.
Did you just compare gay sex to eating out of a bowl of vermin? You are one open-minded bastard.
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post #44 of 81
2/17/08 at 1:52am
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Originally Posted by GET AIDS NOW! View Post
I went down on her, and gave her a reacharound while doing it doggy.
Waitaminnit? Who PAID whom for what now? I hope you got a discount for so much reciprocation.
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post #45 of 81
2/17/08 at 3:09pm
I think we need more explanation regarding the going down on the tranny.

You said it was a thing of the moment. But you knew what you were doing right? I mean, somewhere in your mind there has to be the moment that you think to yourself "I just grabbed a dick and i am going to put it in my mouth" That did not raise any red flags with you?

If it didn't bother you and you actually enjoyed it... then 100% bi or gay.
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post #46 of 81
2/17/08 at 3:19pm
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I mean, somewhere in your mind there has to be the moment that you think to yourself "I just grabbed a dick and i am going to put it in my mind".
But he didn't put it in his *mind. He put it in his mouth. There's a HUGE difference.

(*Yes, I know you meant "mouth". I'm busting your chops, Tati.)

Don't mind me, I'm just over here splitting hairs about a typo...
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post #47 of 81
2/17/08 at 3:23pm
Get AIDS Now- please change your avatar. This is the perfect opportunity.
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post #48 of 81
2/17/08 at 3:27pm
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But he didn't put it in his *mind. He put it in his mouth. There's a HUGE difference.

(*Yes, I know you meant "mouth". I'm busting your chops, Tati.)

Don't mind me, I'm just over here splitting hairs about a typo...
Yeah, i just corrected that.

Now i can't stop imagining a guy putting a dick in his mind.
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post #49 of 81
2/17/08 at 6:34pm
Personally I think the fact they resemble women makes you feel comfortable doing gay sex acts.

That's just what I think you're going through.

But simple test: Does my avatar turn you on? Does it make you randy baby?


Joking aside, this thread is a riot.
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post #50 of 81
2/17/08 at 7:20pm
Think of it this way. You just became a hell of a lot more interesting. Enjoy that.
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