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Stress DOES kill.

post #1 of 11
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I've been working as a consultant at an agency for a year now. The office was understaffed beyond belief and the manager showed up twice a week at the most. Anyway, while there I made friends with some pretty decent people including the guy in the accounting department (well technically it was just him so he WAS the department).

Now here's the thing, the manager refused to hire a secretary, a P.R person (despite the fact that this agency handles promotion), an assistant of any kind or even someone to handle logistics (despite the fact that a large part of the agency's job is to organize conferences and fly people in).

Now all those jobs I mentioned above, the reason she didn't hire anyone is because she just threw them all on the accounting guy. The guy had a wife and two kids and could not afford to quit, for a while, under any circumstances. The dude stayed past 5, late till 10 or 11 pm, some times over nighting. He was never compensated with overtime.

Most days she'd drag him to come back to the office on weekends, then every morning she'd scold him in front of us and scream at him for the smallest things. I had never seen abuse of power that bad. There was a time when she screamed at him and called him a "liar" over and over. Eventually he snapped and yelled back "I'm not a liar". She went back into her room and started calling corporate to get his next contract terminated (he was between contracts), till we calmed her down.

Eventually, over time he had to start seeing a psychiatrist to handle the whole situation. It got to a point where I couldn't mention her name in front of him or he'd start to feel upset. He started looking for serious alternatives for the job, so he could quit.

Before that happened though, he developed blood pressure problems and issues with the arteries around his heart. His doctors warned him he had to stop being stressed.

Last Christmas, the manager decided not to give us our Christmas holiday because "we hadn't tidied up the office or filed the folders in the cabinets", however, she took her husband and her kids and went on vacation, while we stayed and worked. Shed conference with the office via email a lot of the times keeping the accountant guy late for no reason at all.

Eventually around New years eve, the accountant left a little early, and took a sick day off. He saw a doctor and the doctor just told him he was stressed but there was nothing physically wrong with him.

His wife called us the next morning and told us that he'd died in his sleep.

He was only 33.

When the manager came back she started talking about how the accountant was the closest guy in the office to her, that she couldn't bare seeing his empty desk. She refused to accept any accusations from his widow that she had anything to do with it. I kept hearing rumblings of legal action taking place but till now it seems to have died down (I believe due to the fact that it may affect the compensation his young daughters are getting from corporate).

It has to be the single most haunting experience of my life.
post #2 of 11
She sounds like a fucking monster. What an utterly awful story. Is there no human resources department he could have gone to? This sounds like systematic victimisation. How does this harpy have a job? Has she moved onto making anyone elses life miserable?
post #3 of 11
He probably was HR as well. This kinds of stories suck, especially when you picture an older gentleman in your mind before the reveal.


I just turned 33 a few weeks back.
post #4 of 11
No offense, but if you literally worry yourself to death over some shitty job, you probably weren't long for this world in the first place.
post #5 of 11
That's the kind of stuff that you document the hell out of, with witnesses, and bring to a lawyer. Singling out a single worker for that kind of abuse without any kind of documentation (written warnings, etc) is illegal, if I'm not mistaken.
post #6 of 11
Did she borrow his stapler without asking as well?
post #7 of 11
It reads like the first 10 pages of a 13 page Tales from the Crypt story.
post #8 of 11
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Originally Posted by Minsky View Post
It reads like the first 10 pages of a 13 page Tales from the Crypt story.
But at the end of the story, Stress is revealed to be Danny Trejo, and suddenly everything makes sense.
post #9 of 11
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No offense, but if you literally worry yourself to death over some shitty job, you probably weren't long for this world in the first place.
Having mouths to feed might significantly raise the tolerance threshold, I'm guessin'. Horrible story. Anyone ever see Rod Serling's "Patterns"?
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Having mouths to feed might significantly raise the tolerance threshold, I'm guessin'.
Maybe, but it's really hard to get a new job if you're dead.
post #11 of 11
I'm incredibly stressed at my job, and I have mouths to feed. It's easier to laugh off if you're single and have no responsibilities to anyone but yourself. That said, I rarely bitch about what I do because my job's virtually Depression-proof and when I get home my work bullshit doesn't come in the house with me. I got a big TV, Blu-Rays, games, and I'm riding my couch with my hand down my pants Al Bundy-style and I don't ask for much more than that.
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