WHY I USED TO PLAY
1. WOW saved me a ton of cash...
I was really bad with purchasing games I would never play or play infrequently. And not just video games, tabletop and roleplaying games too. I used to buy all of this stuff just to read the rules or have the little dudes that came with the games on my shelf, but I would rarely be able to coordinate an actual games day or consecutive time to play. When I was playing WoW, I had a great immersive game that fit into my weird schedule when I wanted it too, and when I had time to game, it usually got spent playing WoW. Happily, many of my friends did that too, and we RP'ed and gamed within the WoW environment instead of having to assemble all of the time. We still try and do the board game thing once a month, but I was not and am still not spending new money on games.
The same thing sort of happened with DVD expenditures too. Now my wife and I only buy movies that we know we will watch more than once, rather than just a bevy of new releases every Tuesday like we used too.
2. WOW satisfied my collecting fetish...
I used to be terrible with spending money on collectables, whether it was toys, card games, whatever. I put that fetish to use in WoW for Profession and Secondary Skill recipes. Oddly, I found that just as satisfying, and I would quite often do research on where to find rare ones, etc. before playing.
3. I could play WOW by myself...
I've done both the guild thing and the solo thing, and I loved that I could actually do stuff in the game without other people. This facilitated my ultra-casual play style. I was afraid at first I wouldn't be able to really enjoy playing after hearing about raiding, etc. I basically decided I didn't really care if I did the whole raid thing, I was still having grand fun. The most grouping I would do would be pick-up groups for the occasional instance, or with friends, nothing big. BG stuff for me was almost as cool as playing Battlefront, and that can be done very casually too.
4. I felt like I was immersed in a different place when playing WOW...
I really appreciated the lengths that the developers went to to make the game look good and be detailed and interesting enough to hold my interest. RP'ing in this environment was fabulous, because as a DM 85% of your work is done for you. And yes, I did like to RP.
I found the stress-relief inherent in escaping into Azeroth a very real thing for me as well, as super-nerdy as that sounds.
5. WOW 'forced' me to be more disciplined with my time
I didn't watch nearly any TV after I started playing this game, which I think is a great thing. We as a family will watch things together, and my wife and I watch shows together, but if I have free time when everyone else is asleep in the house or my wife is doing her thang, the TV never factored in for random viewing, as I found WOW more compelling.
WHY I QUIT
The first time I quit it was
to help a friend get over the game, as she was really struggling with managing her time spent playing and couldn't do it on her own. I started playing again a year later (go figure), and finally quit early this year.
I realized that ultimately, World of Warcraft can be a barrier to being successful in life. Every person I talk to who plays justifies it by saying things like “It’s just my hobby” or “I do WoW instead of watching T.V.” or even “It’s my lifestyle.” No one plays this game truly casually. I got up to 25 hrs a week at my worst!! The game itself is set up to make it very difficult to do anything useful in a single hour of play, and there is in fact no “winning” World of Warcraft. The more you play, the more successful you will be in-game. It is adept at making you feel like you have accomplished a great deal, when really all you have done is played for a long time.
Real life achievements take a lot of time and trying to achieve something doesn’t always result in success. In World of Warcraft, you WILL be successful at ANYTHING in the game world, just as long as you spend enough time playing. No chance of failure makes the real world seem boring and difficult by comparison. But I realized I wanted more out of my life than WoW. This is the essence as to why WoW is as successful as it is; Blizzard has come up with the perfect marriage of the illusion of acomplishment and decent game play. Hats off too them, but this game is not a good thing for me.
EDITED TO ADD: I am not in the minority for problem gaming, apparently.