I'm Jacob_Singer48 on PSN.
Well, all the descriptions you've read are true. The game is pretty fuckin' brutal. I was actually kicking ass in the first castle section (after the tutorial), then suddenly I'm besieged by two undead who do fire damage. 300+ souls down the drain. You can only recover the souls near your most recent death, so one false move or one missed block and it's back to the starting gate. I kept wondering why there were so many bloodstains in early sections of the game, and realized that the more times players have to repeat a section, the more chances for random deaths, obviously.
I may take some time out to RTFM and visit the official forums for any hints and tips I can pick up. I chose a barbarian, and many of these early guys I can kill with one hit, but the way they move and team up can really throw off your timing (or maybe just my timing).
The game is darn purty, and it's cool watching other live souls run around, reading the messages (and yeah, when they're honest messages they can save your ass), and it looks like a lot of people are having fun committing suicide just for the bloodstain replays.
In the long run, though, I'm not sure I'll have enough patience to get very far. I fought my way back to the two fire guys who killed me, only to die again in the exact same fashion just before retrieving my souls, even though I knew they were there. I have no armor yet, and if one guy tags me with fire that's it, poof, I'm dead.
I'll try the tutorial again with different characters to see what I prefer, but it looks like no matter what you pick you can still level it any way you like. And I haven't even tried any ranged combat or magic or anything.
All in all, it's a fun new kind of rpg experience, and I'm guessing if you have the patience and skill it's gonna be a blast. Dunno if I can live up to the challenge, but I'll give it the ol' Navy try.