lol @ this thread.
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9/28/09 at 3:45am
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Perhaps more importantly, though, are the psychological ramifications of being raped. Ever hear of self-blame? Lots of rape victims (and victims of other acts) go through it. It is a coping strategy. The end result is often that they forgive their aggressor. They become psychologically traumatized enough that they end up blaming themselves and forgiving the actual responsible party. This is known and well-documented. Therefore, no, what the victim thinks should not be of primary importance.
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From Devin's article, this part is the most relevant aspect of the case at this point:
"I was the 13-year-old girl Roman Polanski took advantage of on March 10, 1977, wrote Samantha Geimer, now a 45-year old mother of three. "I have urged that this matter come to a formal legal end. I have urged that the district attorney and the court dismiss these charges." "True as they may be, the continued publication of those details causes harm to me, my beloved husband, my three children and my mother. I have become a victim of the actions of the district attorney," she wrote in a brief filed with the court. Geimer continued: "My position is absolutely clear. Let us deal with the harm and continued harm that the pendency of this matter visits upon me and my family, and waive the legal niceties away, and cause it to be dismissed." Speaks for itself, I think. |
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He raped a 13 year old girl, and has avoided criminal prosecution for 31 years.
Speaks for itself, I think. |
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He raped a 13 year old. He was arrested. He then pleaded guilty and the idiot judge gave him less than a slap on the wrist. After he had served his ridiculous sentence the idiot judge changed his mind and wanted to prosecute him for enough stuff to put him away for life. THEN he fled the country.
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Yeah, Jared's opinion is probably the closest to mine regarding this, but regardless of the case or your feelings on it, it doesn't change the fact that Chinatown is one of the greatest movies ever made.
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From past discussions, I know you've lost people close to you. You know how much violence bereavement can do to your state of mind. Now, imagine that those experiences apply to your entire family and not only did you not get time to prepare for those losses but also that they were extremely violent and in the most traumatizing settings possible. You do not experience that and come out "right."
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One thing that tends to go underappreciated in "the artist vs. the art" discussions is that this philosophy not only suggests that it's okay to enjoy Chinatown despite the fact that its creator raped a child, but that said creator is subject to the same ethical standards as everyone else, despite the fact that he made Chinatown.
I'm not sure anyone's doing this here, but it's hard to believe that this whole thing would even be a debate (it certainly wouldn't have merited a documentary) if it were some Joe Average who finally got picked up for the same crime after decades in self-imposed exile. His artistic output is absolutely a factor in how this is being treated. |
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That said, I TOTALLY see why he fled. Justice took a distant back seat the moment that fucking judge decided to play around with it. From Polanski's perspective, I can totally see why he has nothing but distrust for our legal system.
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What he did was gross and very wrong, but like it or not, there's some degree of difference between what he did and say, violently kidnapping/raping a child. The shades of gray (i.e. the Mother's complacency in the act, etc) surrounding the actual rape itself make assigning some sort of "danger level" to Polanski difficult. |
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That older interview segment with him leads you to believe that he truly sees nothing wrong at all with having sex with younger (13-15) girls. He seems to imply that a society such as ours is only repressing our "true desires" by not fucking little girls just as soon as they develop more womanly traits.
Personally, I could never forgive him for such horrible behavior. Fucking/raping a little girl like that is unforgivable and inexcusable. That said, I TOTALLY see why he fled. Justice took a distant back seat the moment that fucking judge decided to play around with it. From Polanski's perspective, I can totally see why he has nothing but distrust for our legal system. What he did was gross and very wrong, but like it or not, there's some degree of difference between what he did and say, violently kidnapping/raping a child. The shades of gray (i.e. the Mother's complacency in the act, etc) surrounding the actual rape itself make assigning some sort of "danger level" to Polanski difficult. Basically what I mean is, I think he deserves/deserved a much lesser sentence than a really violent counterpart. And I can totally see why he'd be worried that he'd be treated as something far worse/more dangerous than he is. |
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Actually I think the correct term is something different. There is a classification difference between people who are attracted to children and people attracted to adolescents
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Well seeing as how our nation and people like my father liberated concentration camps and administrated the Nuremberg Trials, I'd hope he then in turn would have enough respect for our legal system not to run away the minute he realizes we're also against rape.
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He drugged a 13 year old girl he was working with and raped her. Then went on to make other movies, and work with other kids. I'm not going to try and debate the justice system aspect of the case, but the "Allowing a pedophile to work around more innocent kids" aspect is pretty crazy.
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I'm not a lawyer, but I'm pretty sure someone accused of a crime isn't allowed to flee the country because the judge is a meanie. No matter what reasoning Polanski used to rationalize his flight from the law, it doesn't make it any less a crime.
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But that's just it, why should he have any respect for our "precious legal system" when we, ourselves, treated it like a joke in regards to his case.
If I were him, I wouldn't view our legal system any differently. He got an inside look at just how fucked up it can be, all based on the whims of one crazy media-whore. |
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The man has NO REASON to trust our legal system to do "what is fair and just."
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Also, (and again, this is no way excusing what he did, and I don't think the documentary does either) the Tate/Manson murders and subsequent press coverage was pretty goddamn sensationalized. The guy was basically accused of assisting the murders because of his purported orgies and devil worship. It's therefore fair to assume that one of the reasons he fled was that he didn't want to be vilified in the media or continue to go through a trial by media a second time.
But since he has and will continue to, you know, it's a wash. |
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Did you watch the documentary, and pay close attention?
You're totally missing the point. Let's say you were accused of something you didn't do, or, you did something like shoplift. You then come to find out that you have a maniacal judge who's going to try to give you a unjustly harsh sentence like, oh, LIFE IN FUCKING JAIL. You're telling me that if you had the means, you wouldn't flee to somewhere "safe" (i.e. that wouldn't extradite you)? You think the right thing to do, in the face of a corrupt judicial process/system is just stand there and take it, then try to conduct appeals within the same fucked-up legal system?! There are almost two issues at hand here. 1) Yes, he's a very fucked up man for raping that girl, and he DOES deserve punishment/justice. 2) He TRIED to stand there and take what was coming to him. But when it became clear that it was all just a game with him as a pawn, he left. I would've done the same thing. Doesn't make it legal, and it doesn't make it "right." But, in his shoes, you'd be a fucking idiot to expect a "fair trial." |
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I HAVE been accused of something I did not do. I was "busted" for marijuana in HS, and I was dealt with in a manner that violated my constitutional rights (Both Federal and state). I could have taken a deal that would have smeared my name but been less of a hassle, but I stood up for myself and told the truth and would not admit to false charges.
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She's openly arguing in bad faith. I'd quit while you're ahead, unless you like trying to reason with people whose opinions will not, under any circumstances, change.
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