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post #51 of 53
I was raised in a fairly strict roman catholic household, and my parents have been almost suspiciously ok with my unbaptized children. I think sometimes that they had them secretly baptized. I don't give a shit.
post #52 of 53
I consider myself pretty religious. I go to church every week, teach a Sunday School class, have been baptized, etc... The decision about whether to put a child through a religious ceremony belongs strictly to the parents. If you don't want to do it, you shouldn't do it. If you don't see any harm in it and it will make things more peaceful with your relatives, fine. But if you don't believe in it, it would be nice if your family would respect that and not push it.
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Originally Posted by stelios View Post
Go ahead and christen your babies all you like if it means a little peace of mind. I was more militant about it until a friend of mine asked me to be his daughter's godfather. At first I thought that since I don't believe it wouldn't be right for me to swear that I would guide her way into the church or whatever. Then I remembered I don't believe in any of this stuff so I could really do anything they wanted without caring at all.

Got a nice watch out the whole deal, too.
I guess I kind of see what some of you are saying.

Maybe I'm built differently, but for me things like this are up there with going along with some sort of mass hallucination and pretending you are seeing the giant purple monkey that everyone else sees.

I see value in truth (insomuch as we can possibly comprehend it), and I won't go along with a religious ceremony just for family peace. I'd ditch the family before I did that. They need to respect the fact that I don't take part in nonsensical magical thinking if they even want to know my address and ever interact with my daughter.

The ball is in their court.
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