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Originally Posted by Chris Miller 
Oh, and that father really needs to say something to Mean Gene.
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I didn't watch the whole video but from the clip, I saw with him pointing his finger at the camera and saying "CONSEQUENCES WILL NEVER BE THE SAME!". I was thinking the same thing. It looked like one of those promos for the upcoming grudge match at a wrestling pay-per-view.
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Originally Posted by JGButler 
But that's the problem - she's an annoying pre-teen kid. Doing what annoying pre-teen kids do - being annoying. That doesn't make her a Dr. Chilton. And maybe it's just me but making that drastic of an analogy is troubling to me.
And yes, I have a daughter, but my thoughts on this come from a completely different place. While yes, it's important to teach people about responsibility and being safe in general, there seems to be this whole disparity in how much responsibility is on whom. 4chan and its members made this girl vulnerable to God knows what. The response to that is horrifyingly lackadaisical, while she's crucified for being an annoying kid. And yes, the girl and her parents both need to be better educated on the right and the wrong ways to use the internet, but saying she deserved THIS? Sorry, that just doesn't add up. It's not hyperbole - this is EXACTLY where the "Your honor - she was asking for it. Did you SEE how short that skirt was?" mentality comes from. Nobody tells the guys not to rape - they always tell the girls not to dress that way. Nobody's telling 4chan not to invade this girl's life, they're telling this girl not to be such a brat. It's not cool.
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Couldn't agree more. Yes, this girl's whole family needs to get with the program and her parents definitely are slipping in that aspect but the fact that so many seem to think that makes the behavior of those that attack her either acceptable or at the very least, less of a problem than it's being made out to be, is kind of sad.
A lot of eleven-year-olds are aware of all kinds of innapopriate language and obscene sayings. What they rarely have is a full understanding of the words or a grasp of what saying them can result in. Should this child have a YouTube account where she is broadcasting this kind of language for the world to see? Absolutely not. But I also realize that it's entirely possible that nobody in this house understood the full posibility of what could happen. If we're talking about making mock video or text responses to the content, that is one thing. However, we're dealing with a group of adults who leaked personal information out so they could harrass and torture this girl and her family. It is every bit, the same logic as "Well, if the parents aren't educated enough to teach her not to dress that way, I'm not gonna cry when someone sexually harrrases her."