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OK, this is just an idea I had for a thread, feel free to participate if you think it's worthwhile:

Crying during a movie. It's happened to all of us at one point or another, I'd reckon. If not, you're one stoic Chewer. For me at least, crying can be a emotional release, and it can happen for a variety of reasons unrelated to sadness. Sometimes it has more to do with the specific circumstances of the day than it does with the content of the film. Under the right conditions, even the most melodramatic tripe can strike at a weak spot and leave us vulnerable to heightened emotions (I'll put my hand up and admit to sobbing during a TV movie edition of the FLIGHT 93 story). What I am more curious about though are the films that continue to move us on their own terms, long after the memory of the initial viewing experience has grown stale. Do you have any special films that still provide that visceral release even though you've seen them 2, 10, 20 times?

I bring this up for two reasons: I'm about to rewatch CARNIVALE and I just saw THE CRUCIBLE a few weeks ago on NETFLIX INSTANT

In the case of CARNIVALE (SPOILERS for CARNIVALE to the end of this paragraph), no matter how many times I see it (10 times now, total?), the sequence where Ben fixes Jonesy's knee/skin continues to leave me bleary eyed and tear stained. Perhaps it's because we'd gotten to know those characters over the course of the 22 odd episodes that preceded Hawkin's 'laying hands' on his crippled chum, or maybe it's just that the moment comes in the wake of the horrific taring and feathering scene. I don't know. Whatever it is, I've found that episode moves me like few things I've ever seen

When I started to watch THE CRUCIBLE the other day, I was wondering if it would have the same impact now that I'd already seen the climactic turn where DDL's Proctor decides to hang rather than further dirty his already unclean name with a lie. I was doubtful it would, even though I'd not seen the movie in about two years. Then of course by the time DDL shouts out "Because it is my name! Because I'll never have another in my life!" I was right there with him, tears running down my face all over again

OK, so that is the basic concept of this thread. I love the movies (and to a lesser extent, the TV), and continue to marvel at the power they have to make us think and feel


Before I open this up to other people, I figured I'd embarrass myself further (so that no one else need fear to speak up) by saying that I cry every time Clive and Zee bust out the CGI baby in CHILDREN OF MEN, and the first movie I ever specifically remember crying during was ARMAGEDDON, when Willis decides to stay to blow up the asteroid and has the flash backs of raising his daughter

EDIT: Although now that I say that I think it's possible I cried when Sean Connery gets revived in IJATLC
post #2 of 130
Damn you Kate for stealing MY moment.

Bruce Willis talking to Affleck and then his daugther from the Moon gets me every time.
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The ending of THE CRUCIBLE is what always gets to me, but I'm a sucker for moments where characters, facing certain death, go out on a note of defiance. The recitation of The Lord's Prayer, ending on that empty American sky, kills me.

In interest of not making this into a "moments that make me cry" list-travaganza, I'll mention a few that always do make me cry, for much the same reasons, but aren't ones that get brought up a lot (except by me).

By and large, the one topic in film that never fails to hit me right in the chest is the modern gay rights movement. I think it's because the movement is more palpatable to me then something like the civil rights era, because it's closer to my own generation. It's also a movement that's tinged with tragedy, because any scenes of gay men and women coming out of the closet, marching, and gathering openly for the first time in the 60s and 70s always leads to the realization that many of those folks aren't alive anymore, killed by AIDS.

That said, the ending of THE TIMES OF HARVEY MILK (soon to be a Criterion release!), which has footage of the candlelight vigil after Milk's assasination, and the dramatic re-enactment of that in MILK always get to me. I tend not to be someone who cries at movies more than once, so I was surprised at just how moved by MILK I was upon a second viewing. It's a beautiful, beautiful moment, but, as I said, laced with a dark cloud of tragedy.

That tragedy, to me, gets illustrated beautifully at the end of LONGTIME COMPANION, which I talked about when it was my selection for Chud's Film O The Month Club. Over "Post-Mortem Bar," one of my favorite songs since I heard it on an IFC mix CD, the three main characters, survivors of the heyday of the AIDS epidemic, walk down the beach of Fire Island, ruminating about the day when there will be a cure. The film then becomes fantastical, as the characters picture themselves reunited with their loved ones, lost to AIDS and the ones we've come to know over the course of the film. There are hundreds, thousands of them, and it's such a powerful scene, I'm getting a little verklempt writing this.
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2 of them for me (not counting UP, that's cheating and possible spoilers ahead):

In Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, the final memory between Joel and Clementine is about 7 minutes of me just losing it more and more and more. From the minute Joel sees Clementine to the end of the memory, tears start bulding, and when he runs out that door, I'm a goner. One of my favorite scenes.

The other is in The Fantastic Mr. Fox. I've seen it three times and each time I get the waterworks going at the same part. As Mr. Fox prepares to turn himself in he talks to Ash and explains to him about the time he learned he was going to have a cub...ugh waterworks.
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My Girl -- Thomas J needs his glasses. You know the scene.

Field of Dreams -- "Hey, Dad .... you wanna have a catch?"

I'm certain there are more but those always come to mind.
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Even though the movie has a lot of flaws and is melodramatic, Tae Guk Gi: Brotherhood of War's ending always gets tears out of me. Even thinking about it does. It was helped by a lot of momentum the movie got that overcame the lesser moments interspersed.
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Oh man, that ending made me weep like a little girl.

I went to see The Fountain in the cinema and by the end I had tears streaming down my face. I've seen it since and it's power is still amazing.

I always bring this one up but in Saving Private Ryan when Giovanni Ribisi get's shot and they're trying to save him, he just keeps calling for his mom, just the way he does it just destroys me.
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"When She Loved Me", Toy Story 2. It doesn't make me cry, perhaps, but good God is it an emotional gut-punch every time I watch it.

Other examples:
-Marlin thinks Nemo is dead and parts from Dory, who begs him not to leave. Ellen DeGeneres made me her emotional bitch with this scene.

-Up. Ellie dies and "Married Life" comes to a quiet close. Tied with "Thanks for a great adventure! Now go have a new one!"

-"My friends... you bow to no one." And everyone in the kingdom bows for four brave little hobbits.

-Michael cries out in despair as E.T.'s flower wilts.

-The Iron Giant. "Suuupperrrrmannnn...."
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"Come on, Mr Frodo. I can't carry it for you. BUT I CAN CARRY YOU! COME ON!!!"
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-Michael cries out in despair as E.T.'s flower wilts.
For me it's when the dog tries to follow E.T. onto the spaceship. I hold it together pretty well until then.
post #11 of 130
I cried today watching the Abed's Uncontrollable Christmas episode of Community. I think I'm going through menopause.
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I've found that I very rarely cry during movies. It's more like I just experience the sensation of it as a feeling. Goosebumps, generally. Goosebumps of joy, really. Hahaha.

How to Train Your Dragon gave me that. Speed Racer. Kung Fu Panda. Lots of family movies... Troy and Abed singing "Somewhere Out There" in season 1 of Community.

If you're talking about tears of sadness... probably the most recent one is the furnace sequence in Toy Story 3. As much as I kinda dumped on that movie on the thread, I really did enjoy it a great deal and that furnace sequence just gets better and better.

Watch out for hot flashes, Patrick!
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I've found that I very rarely cry during movies. It's more like I just experience the sensation of it as a feeling. Goosebumps, generally. Goosebumps of joy, really. Hahaha.

How to Train Your Dragon gave me that. Speed Racer. Kung Fu Panda. Lots of family movies... Troy and Abed singing "Somewhere Out There" in season 1 of Community.

If you're talking about tears of sadness... probably the most recent one is the furnace sequence in Toy Story 3. As much as I kinda dumped on that movie on the thread, I really did enjoy it a great deal and that furnace sequence just gets better and better.
Total agreement here (well, except for Community, since I've never seen it). And thanks for listing the other great ROTK moment I forgot to mention.
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I have to second The Fountain's ending. I cry like a baby.

Another one that gets me every time is Teddy's resolutely joining David at the end of A.I. Something about how Teddy never gets his happy ending, though he is a supertoy as well.
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BABE: PIG IN THE CITY when Thelonius briefly halts the rescue so he can get dressed. That's the number one for me.
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The Natural - The climactic home run, music swelling.

Forrest Gump - Forrest's speech at Jenny's grave.

Schindler's List - "I could have saved one more!"
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"Dad, I've had a bad year." Every time.

I'll third The Fountain.
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Forrest Gump is a movie that I really find reprehensible in a lot of ways, but goddamn if parts of it don't always get to me, including the one Art mentioned. That is Hanks acting his ass off, just like the scene when Forrest sees his son for the first time. Also acting his ass off in Gump: Gary Sinise. "I never thanked you for saving my life." Why didn't he win an Oscar for this?

Are there moments that get to you guys because someone close to you loved them, or were moved by them? IT'S A WONDERFUL LIFE is probably my father's favorite movie of all time, and so I always get a little verklempt when a beaten-down George Bailey comes home to see his house decorated for Christmas. Also when he destroys the tree.

The other one is the one that never fails to make him cry: "Stand up, Jean Louise. Your father's passing."
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Honestly can't remember a movie that does it to me... but the PBS documentary Carrier gets me without fail.

It's one of the last episodes... when a lower-ranking female administrative officer is finally reunited with her kids in Pearl Harbor. The episode spends some time talking about a difficult custody battle going on WHILE on cruise and her total breakdown at the sight of her kids across a room had me bawling. I wasn't expecting it, either... it was just such a gut punch.
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"Dad, I've had a bad year." Every time.
I forgot about this one. It gets me all through its running time, but the biggest is either the one you mentioned or the beginning, where little Richie frees Mortecai as "Hey Jude" peaks.
post #21 of 130
Heh. I cry at commercials and trailers sometimes. This thread had me tearing up for goodness sake.
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Andy & Red meet on the beach at the end of Shawshank
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Frodo and Sam saying goodbye at the end of Return of the King
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-Up. Ellie dies and "Married Life" comes to a quiet close. Tied with "Thanks for a great adventure! Now go have a new one!"
Also "That might sound boring, but I think the boring stuff is the stuff I remember the most."

ET and The Fountain are my choices too. For me Eternal... is when Beck starts singing at the end, then I lost it.
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-Up. Ellie dies and "Married Life" comes to a quiet close. Tied with "Thanks for a great adventure! Now go have a new one."
I'll second those and add in that moment where we see Carl sitting in the church alone with the flowers. And then he just walks into his house and closes the door on the world.

There are film score cues that absolutely slay me. Like at the end of Close Encounters of the Third King as the mother ship is ascending, and the strings soar right before we get that grand orchestral statement of the five-note theme that's filled with such hope and wonder and awe. Even separated from the experience of the film, that piece just wells me up like crazy.

Another is the music that plays over the end credits of Jaws. Just a simple, bare arrangement of the "Out to Sea" theme, yet it feels like such a perfect way to end the film: it's triumphant, but not in a brassy, bold way, more with a sense of weariness.
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The final minute of FAHRENHEIT 451. The book people, their voices slowly blending, the lake, the gently falling snow, Bernard Herrmann's cautiously optimistic, gorgeously haunting music.

I tear up. Every time. (And most shnooks out there hate what Truffaut did with the story... )
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So many have been mentioned already, but one not yet mentioned is the ending to Big Fish. Sure, I'm an easy mark for daddy issues to hit emotionally, but this is so well-done and earns its sentimentality at the end. As the son tells his father how he really dies, in turn accepting and loving his father for who he is, it's beautiful.
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"Dad, I've had a bad year." Every time.
Yeah, this is one for me too. The thing is, the first time I saw the film I reacted to it internally and it worked for me, but no tears. But the last two times I've seen the film, that beautiful tracking shot preceding this moment gets me in that mind set where you can see everyone coming together and healing, and I know that one line is about to hit me and I just start welling up. Just a beautifully acted moment.

As for Big Fish, first time I saw it I think I was about 15 or 16 and I was alone in my basement shaking. I think it's a very earned moment and it cuts to the core more than any of Burton's other emotional moments for me.
post #29 of 130
John Coffey asking not to have the bag put over his head in The Green Mile DESTROYS me.
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There is only one film that makes me well up and that is...Rocky, when he is calling out for...AAAAAAdrian!, at the end.
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I watched Up again recently, and I was either crying or on the verge of tears the ENTIRE MOVIE. I guess I composed myself for awhile there in the middle, but that whole movie is so damn heartbreaking.
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The Great John Candy starring masterpiece COOL RUNNINGS, when the lads slide into the disasterous crash, which seems to go on forever, on their final run, watched by the families and friends back home and the mocking and skeptical world class bobsled community and The Great John Candy and then the lads stand up to carry their broken old sled across the line, first in silence and then to triumphant applause.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ncCAdhJVWPY


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Bruce Willis talking to Affleck and then his daughter from the Moon gets me every time.
Yes. Also when Chick sees his son running out looking for him at the end after the "That's not a salesman ... that's your daddy" bit from earlier.
post #33 of 130
I just remembered a few more. Up, since it was mentioned. The whole silent sequence can make me cry, but I remember feeling so sad and yet touched in the theater when (highlight it for a minor spoiler)

When Russell leaves Mr. Frederickson because he won't help Kevin and sits alone in his house, first the visual of him sitting where he and his wife used to sit, and then looking through the photo album. It kept the bittersweet feeling of that first silent sequence alive but made it new. Then there was that last picture of Ellie and her note.

And though I haven't seen it in a few years, Princess Mononoke's ending made me cry several times. I kind of doubt it would now, but I remember just being so sad that all these characters and the setting I really liked would be gone.
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Edward trimming the hedges on his own at the end of Edward Scissorhands always sets me off.

"You bow for no one"

I sort of hate him for it, but Von Trier gets me going with the end of both Breaking the Waves and Dancer In The Dark, and more in a suicidal way than any kind of cathartic, life affirming way.

This is kind of embarrassing but I revisited this segment from the tv movie Garfield's 9 Lives last year and it left me a blubbering wreck:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfu3hHuoovc
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Seconding Richard on the last 10 minutes of Close Encounters. Everything from Barry saying "Buh-bye" after his mom tells him his friends are going away now onward.

Seconding the end of A.I., though the waterworks start around Osment's delivery of "Would you like me to make you some coffee?" Combined with Williams' score right there. Oy.

I've only seen it the once just this year, but the scene in The Elephant Man where Merrick breaks down because a beautiful woman paid him a compliment for the first time forced me to pause the damn thing for a few minutes to collect myself.

The obvious ROTK moments are out there, but the Ride of the Rohirrim's become the kickstarter for me. After everything that happened, after "Why should we ride to the aid of those who did not come to ours?", and those people are calling Death out by name. The wreckage starts there.

It always threatens to take me out of the film, but the Wise Up montage in Magnolia still destroys me.

Also, it had been a while I watched Pirates 3 all the way through, but the intro with all the condemned pirates singing Hoist The Colors before they hang. I think that's the only time a generally shitty movie has that effect on me right upfront.
post #36 of 130
My ROTK moment is still the image of Minas Tirith fading into the map of Middle-earth and the camera backtracking over it, showing us all the places we've been to over the course of the three films. It's such a graceful reminder of the scope of what's happened, not only to Frodo and company, but to us as viewers: we're not only reminded of the three epic films we've just seen, but also that the journey is almost over. Absolutely destroyed me the first time I saw, and it still gets to me now.
post #37 of 130
I cry every time someone starts another crying during the movies thread.
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Amélie.

The scene where she's making her plum cake, and she imagines Nino coming up behind her. The bead curtain moves, she turns around to see it's just the cat, and she breaks down.
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Of course, the end of RotK. The Grey Havens scene is BRUTAL when I try to watch it, even now.

And the end of RUDY. That fuckin' sack, man.
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Oh, hey there, what's that? Oh, the ending of Scrooged? Yup. Every time.
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Grave of the Fireflies. "She never woke up."

Yeah, you're crying just thinking about it, aren't ya? AREN'T YA?
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Finale of season five of Buffy the Vampire Slayer when Buffy died. Also the finale of season six when Willow breaks down after Xander tells her he loves her. Oh yeah in season three when Buffy is awarded the Class Protector Award. I'm such a pussy when I watch Buffy. I think my chest hair retracts.
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the death of littlefoots mom in Land Before Time
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"I just dont want you to hate me", The Wrestler.

"I'm going to die", The Fountain.

Damn you, Aronofsky.
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"I just dont want you to hate me", The Wrestler.

"I'm going to die", The Fountain.

Damn you, Aronofsky.
I'll see you these two, and raise you Sweet Child O' Mine, and the saddest, loneliest tattoo job ever, respectively.
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I'll see you these two, and raise you Sweet Child O' Mine, and the saddest, loneliest tattoo job ever, respectively.
well played...damn, those two movies really dont fuck around when it comes to bringing the tears.
post #47 of 130
When Travis has to put down Old Yeller.
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"End? No, not the end. Death is just another path, one that we all must take. The grey rain curtain of the world falls away and all turns to silver glass. And then you see it."
"What Gandalf? See what?"
"White shores. And beyond, a far green country, unto a swift sunrise."
"That doesn't sound so bad."

Quoting from memory, so it's a little fuzzy, but the combination of acting, the soft swelling of music and the knowledge that this may be the very last words these characters speak to one another doesn't make me cry, but it just reminds me that (as Sam said in TTT) there's still some greatness in the world and in people.

Cast Away is a brilliant second act bookended by sappy, melodramatic first and third pieces of bullshit, but god damn, Hanks acts the ever loving shit out of the scene where he loses Wilson and just...can't...reach him. "I'm sorry. I'm sorry." Gets me every time and perhaps the best reason to watch the film.
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the death of littlefoots mom in Land Before Time
Oh, snap.

Also, Fievel and his father reunited at the end of An American Tail.
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Originally Posted by D.S. Randlett View Post
"Dad, I've had a bad year." Every time.
This big time.

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"End? No, not the end. Death is just another path, one that we all must take. The grey rain curtain of the world falls away and all turns to silver glass. And then you see it."
"What Gandalf? See what?"
"White shores. And beyond, a far green country, unto a swift sunrise."
"That doesn't sound so bad."
In the other thread about this, I named this one. Right when he says "white shores..." I just lose it.


Also, The Fountain more or less beginning to end. Starting with the first "sighting" of Izzy in the spaceship and on through the end. I have to admit, Mansell's score plays a HUGE role in this. Also the fact that The Fountain just nails that feeling of loss and pondering death in that way (after a loss) so fucking well. It instantly dredges up the two or three instances of heavy, heavy loss I've felt in my lifetime and doesn't let up. Also: it's fucking beautiful in that way which just gets me all the more weepy.

Thankfully I saw that alone, initially, and in an almost empty theater.


Also: numerous instances of John Candy owning the screen in Planes, Trains and Automobiles. The car speech in the snow and ESPECIALLY "I like me. My wife likes me." when you've already seen the film.
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