People are really overthinking the monster and it's motivations. The kids find out that Woodward was a young man when he was working for the government, so we know that the alien has been captive for years and years. We know from the tape that Woodward was sympathetic towards the alien prior to being touched by the alien and sharing thoughts. We also know from the tape that "we" (humanity) have trained this alien to hate us through our actions.
When the alien touched Woodward it would have been exposed to his thoughts. Sympathy, but with absolutely no intent of doing anything to change the alien's situation. Heck, this supposedly kind figure was a main component to the torture as we see Woodward feeding it in the cell. From the alien's perspective, what does it matter if it touches a kind person before eating them? Woodward was supposedly kind and was torturing it.
With Woodward saying we'd trained the alien to hate us, it's obvious that he felt this in the alien's thoughts. Why are we trying to rationalize that after years in captivity, being poked and prodded from a group that had the ability to help the alien get home but just didn't bother, why is it hard to believe that the alien had long since ceased caring and was just going through anybody it needed to in order to escape? That the alien found some compassion at all by the end is amazing but I just don't see the major issues with this that everybody seems to be finding.




