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Originally Posted by
NickP 
you come home from war, to find you wife carpet diving and wanting to take your son across the ocean, you try not to be a dick.
Woah woah woah woah, hold on for a moment.
1. Seeing as that we only see Angela carpet diving after he leaves her again without any word, we can probably assume this affair started when he was away in the war, and even then, when she had no contact from him at all. (Never sent any letters, no notices. It seems just one day, after the war, he showed up)
2. Given Tommy's age, and that they were only formally married in this episode for the first time - it also looks like Jimmy knocked her up, and she had the baby while he was gone, or very early on.
3. Jimmy also came back a different person from the man she had a relationship with (We used to talk about books). Instead of a college student with the idealistic bent (going off to war), a thug, mobster, and general douchebag came home.
4. She wanted to leave after Jimmy beat the shit out of someone who he thought she slept with, in broad daylight, right in front of their son. Sounds like she had a damn sound reason to want to get out of there, for her sake as well as her child's. (She also didn't abandon Tommy when Gillian offered to take him off her hands.) We see more of this in this episode as well: She doesn't want her son exposed to guns and violence. As opposed to a school on the Seine where her son could receive a liberal education and not be shut up in a dank apartment.
This is the 1920's, and she took a huge step to get out and away from a life she deemed harmful to herself and her child. It failed. Spectacularly. Sure, the character has flaws, but maybe Jimmy shouldn't be a dick because, you know, you shouldn't be a dick to people you supposedly care for/take care of, and then maybe they won't go carpet diving and try to run as far away from you as they could. Maybe you shouldn't kill people for a living.
Just saying.