How hard is this to do, Hollywood? A social drama without any pandering, condescension, or syrupy sentimentality. Ping ponging sympathies without ever making any of the characters seem less than three dimensional human beings. A moral quagmire like a Chinese finger trap, the more you pull in any direction, the tighter it gets. But it never feels like the filmmakers are stacking the deck. There's tension from almost every possible angle: legal, familial, religious, ethical, etc. Every one of the main characters impacts the central events of the film, and everyone has their own unique stakes.
You always want these kind of movies to pay off, even if they don't really need to, because of how impactful each individual scene is on their own. It's not the kind of thing where everything is riding on a climax or a reveal. By all rights the film could just sort of run its course, like real life, with nothing satisfactorily resolved. And that's what it does, but just like the last great social drama I watched (4 Months, 3, Weeks, and 2 Days) the ending still manages to be a real knockout. The final scene sort of sums everything up: another emotionally complex situation that requires a definitive answer when such a thing is not really possible. The line that kept going through my head at the end was from the most recent Mad Men, "Every time we do this, it diminishes us a little."
How hard is this to do? Actually probably pretty damn hard, considering this is the best film of 2011.