I am moving this discussion to it's own thread...
My oldest son is 10 now and he has been begging me to watch horror films for the last couple of years. I had been sticking with older films (The Invisible Man, The Terror, The Blob, etc...) and made for TV films.
I just let him watch the R rated Dog Soldiers (which some of his friends saw on SciFi) this past weekend. While DS is pretty damn gory it doesn't pack the emotional wallop of the PG13 rated RING which I haven't let him see yet. I know the ending of RING would be too much for him now.
Now I know that might seem backwards a bit, but my son has been raised with video games such as Quake and Unreal and understands that cartoonish violence is just that. He is very well adjusted. He has also been playing (just found out) Resident Evil at a friend's house and claims that it is no big deal.
He begs me to watch these movies constantly and I think I am going to concentrate on mixed genre films that contain horror/sci fi and action (Aliens/Predator/Dog Soldiers/Terminator 2). Any suggestions? Of course, I am going to watch each one again to ensure that I haven't forgotten some god awful scene that will ruin his childhood.
I'm also going to try and not show him films that seem to portray women in a misogynistic fashion (see Carpenter's VAMPIRES). That would eliminate a few films, eh? I'll also stay away from slasher films as well for now.
My family raised me on horror films. I saw Friday the 13th, when I was in 4th grade. As a matter of fact, my mother was babysitting my oldest son (when he was 4) and I walked into my parent's house to find my him watching the Coppola version of Dracula on VHS. I almost shat myself. My mother said "Hey, you turned out fine." Needless, to say I asked that they tone the films down a bit when the kids go over (they have).
I would like to stress that my son is a very even tempered kid and he has a firm grip on what is reality and what isn't. I am going to let him see more types of horror films when I feel comfortable that he is handling what I have previously shown him. My other son is a wild child, a wonderful loving kid, but I'll be a bit more careful with him.
Anyone else going through the same situation we are? Anyone think I am about to ruin my child. I'd be interested to hear.
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I just let him watch the R rated Dog Soldiers (which some of his friends saw on SciFi) this past weekend. While DS is pretty damn gory it doesn't pack the emotional wallop of the PG13 rated RING which I haven't let him see yet. I know the ending of RING would be too much for him now.
Now I know that might seem backwards a bit, but my son has been raised with video games such as Quake and Unreal and understands that cartoonish violence is just that. He is very well adjusted. He has also been playing (just found out) Resident Evil at a friend's house and claims that it is no big deal.
He begs me to watch these movies constantly and I think I am going to concentrate on mixed genre films that contain horror/sci fi and action (Aliens/Predator/Dog Soldiers/Terminator 2). Any suggestions? Of course, I am going to watch each one again to ensure that I haven't forgotten some god awful scene that will ruin his childhood.
I'm also going to try and not show him films that seem to portray women in a misogynistic fashion (see Carpenter's VAMPIRES). That would eliminate a few films, eh? I'll also stay away from slasher films as well for now.
My family raised me on horror films. I saw Friday the 13th, when I was in 4th grade. As a matter of fact, my mother was babysitting my oldest son (when he was 4) and I walked into my parent's house to find my him watching the Coppola version of Dracula on VHS. I almost shat myself. My mother said "Hey, you turned out fine." Needless, to say I asked that they tone the films down a bit when the kids go over (they have).
I would like to stress that my son is a very even tempered kid and he has a firm grip on what is reality and what isn't. I am going to let him see more types of horror films when I feel comfortable that he is handling what I have previously shown him. My other son is a wild child, a wonderful loving kid, but I'll be a bit more careful with him.
Anyone else going through the same situation we are? Anyone think I am about to ruin my child. I'd be interested to hear.
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