Ok, so I've been feeling a lot better recently but still not where I want to be. I've been losing weight, running, eating healthy. Really getting ready for this party in a couple weeks.
Today, our town was having it's summer fair and tonight was the big fireworks. So my aunts come over along with some of my cousins (including the one I'm talking about). We go swimming and then back to our place for a BBQ. My cousin invited a couple of her friends. Well guess who shows up? I like panicked. Holy shit. I wasn't prepared. I mean she's sitting in my house at my kitchen table eating with us. I'm talking a little bit. But I know I was way too fucking nervous.
I think they're coming to the party in a couple weeks. I really need to work on my shyness.
Edit: I think I absolutely need to have a few beers before or during the party. I don't really like going overboard and I would probably look/act really stupid if I got drunk. But about 4 or 5 beers and I'm like a completely different person (in a good way). I'm talking to everyone, I'm not acting totally shy.
Edit again: But yeah, I was thinking maybe I don't really like her. I mean I've only met her a few times and just going by her facebook movie/TV likes isn't really anything. But seeing her today was just... wow. She's smart, funny. She's even shy except for around her sister and her sister's boyfriend. She talked to them most of the time. I'm the same way. When I'm with my cousins and friends I open up, I talk. I just act like myself. Why can't I do that in front of other people? It fucking sucks. It's more than just this too. It's held me back from a lot of things.
But yeah I've just never felt this way before about anyone. I've always been interested in girls and dating but my shyness and lack of confidence (from being over weight) has held me back. But this girl just seems amazing.
Edited by Upgrayedd - 7/15/12 at 10:33pm