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post #1 of 91
Thread Starter 
I know we've had the do you/don't you like it rough debate, but I was thinking about it this morning, and just decided to throw this out there.

I like it rough. I like to be marked. I like to be sore the next day. I feel that twinge when walking or sitting down, and I want it all over again.

Am I the only one?
post #2 of 91
Wanna date?

The title of the thread alone made me tingle from scalp to thigh.
post #3 of 91
My girl is agressive, not necessarily rough and I definitely do not complain.
post #4 of 91
I like my sex like I like my sandpaper: Abrasive, and dustless.
post #5 of 91
Kitty, you sound like an unsolicited e-mail.

wink
post #6 of 91
Thread Starter 
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Dave Brosius:
Kitty, you sound like an unsolicited e-mail.

wink
If it bothers you, honey, don't read it. This is the sex forum. We come here to talk about sex. Unsolicited or not.

Edited because that was pretty harsh. Excuse me, Dave, I'm not in that great a mood at the moment.
post #7 of 91
Kitty, I was being "rough". Even broke my "no smilies on CHUD" rule. Sorry to hear things aren't going so well. Now if Yeem! was working...
post #8 of 91
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Refrozen Seabass:
Wanna date?

The title of the thread alone made me tingle from scalp to thigh.
Thanks, dear, but I believe the distance is a bit much, and my boyfriend would probably object. wink
post #9 of 91
The distance is a bit much? You've never even seen me naked, how would you know?

Oh. Geographical distance. I see.

Are you sure you don't wanna date? I'll even make you run to the bus stop the next morning and everything.
post #10 of 91
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Refrozen Seabass:
I'll even make you run to the bus stop the next morning and everything.
I said I liked it rough, not that I want to be humilated.
post #11 of 91
Thread Starter 
Quote:
El Grosso:
I like to pound a bitch Kobe-Style.
Niiiiiiiiice. Thanks for contributing.
post #12 of 91
I heard that girl needed five stitches in her asshole.
post #13 of 91
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Devin is the Faux Elite:
I heard that girl needed five stitches in her asshole.
It's twue! It's twue!
post #14 of 91
Thread Starter 
If I have to tell y'all that there is a difference between RAPE and rough CONSENSUAL SEX, then I feel sorry for you.

Geez.
post #15 of 91
Who said you had to?
post #16 of 91
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kittyinjammies:
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Refrozen Seabass:
I'll even make you run to the bus stop the next morning and everything.
I said I liked it rough, not that I want to be humilated.
Well that's cool. I don't care to humiliate you. But if being sore the next day is what you're after, a good sprint for the bus stop in the morning is just the thing.
post #17 of 91
Where did humiliation come up, by the way?
post #18 of 91
Thread Starter 
Well, making one run to the bus stop instead of dropping one off at one's destination is a bit humiliating, in my opinion.
post #19 of 91
Oh.

Oh!

Nononono. I'm a gentleman, just not necessarily a gentle man. You would have but to ask for a ride. And breakfast is included because I give good breakfast.

It comes from asking a friend what the worst part of anal sex was. Her answer: running for the bus the next morning. Because she took the bus to work.

I wouldn't fly across the continent only to kick you out the door the next morning. What kind of guy do you think I am?
post #20 of 91
Thread Starter 
A guy that likes it rough?
post #21 of 91
Well, yeah. But I'm not a cad.

So what's the appeal of being marked? And what kind of marks? Skinned knees and teeth marks and possibly chafed wrists sort of come with the territory, sure, but the appeal of leaving marks for the sake of marking someone up escapes me. Riding crops and cats o' nine tails and stuff are fun to watch, but playing that game just feels sort of silly to me.

Is it the pain, or is it the thrill of seeing the marks in the bathroom mirror at work and remembering how you got them? I like it rough because it seems to me that girls who like it rough really, really enjoy themselves. Repeatedly. Over several hours. If they're happy, I'm happy. A sigh and a shudder doesn't do it. That's why I like to play rough. That pain follows from, say, spending twenty minutes with your upper body and one knee on the kitchen table is just par for the course. I get the impression it's worth it, as did the neighbours.

But I don't get off on giving pain as such. What's the appeal in receiving it?
post #22 of 91
"Is it the pain, or is it the thrill of seeing the marks in the bathroom mirror at work and remembering how you got them?"
From what I gather, yes.
Aka, both of em.

I've dated girls that like it rougher than I care to give, and I've dated girls who think I'm rough enough (as in, I'm in a good place, not that I'm too rough).

I have no idea where I'm going with this, except to say that sinus infections make you ramble.
post #23 of 91
Kitty, you work way to hard to have a good time. Ease up there, dolly.
post #24 of 91
Rough isn't really my style, but I'd try it if it ever came up.
post #25 of 91
I'd do whatever the girl I was with wanted me to do.
I'm getting pleasure as it is if I'm having sex, but I want the girl to be happy and have a good time.

I have no real preferences, but rough is always fun.
post #26 of 91
Thread Starter 
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Refrozen Seabass
So what's the appeal of being marked?

Hmm. I'm not really sure. A possession thing? Evidence of a kind of surrender?

What kind of marks?

I think you misunderstood on this one. I'm not taking a beating here. Marks to me are bite marks, suck marks (below the neck, please), bruises where perhaps my partner held me too tightly. Carpet burn in some cases. Abrasions on tender areas from his beard. Hair pulling in the heat of the moment. I like a bit of the spanky spanky from time to time too, so I guess you can add soreness to that.

Is it the pain, or is it the thrill of seeing the marks in the bathroom mirror at work and remembering how you got them?

More the residual pain than seeing the marks. Actually, I don't think I would ever be in a position that I would see them at work. Here's a for instance - I'm not particularly into anal, but I do it every once in a while for the aftereffects. I don't get much out of it when I'm actually having it, but the soreness and tenderness the next day turns me on like crazy.

But I don't get off on giving pain as such. What's the appeal in receiving it?

I've thought about this quite a bit. Much of it is physical. I love the intensity. A small part of it for me is the surrender. Saying, in effect with my body, you can do what you want (this requires a lot of trust in your partner).
post #27 of 91
Quote:
kittyinjammies:
If I have to tell y'all that there is a difference between RAPE and rough CONSENSUAL SEX, then I feel sorry for you.

Geez.
Urm. I hope that wasn't directed at me, cause that's not what I was implying. I just saw Devin's post and thought of Blazing Saddles. Sorry if I offened, it 'twas not my intention.
post #28 of 91
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g-dude is good for goodness sake:
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kittyinjammies:
If I have to tell y'all that there is a difference between RAPE and rough CONSENSUAL SEX, then I feel sorry for you.

Geez.
Urm. I hope that wasn't directed at me, cause that's not what I was implying. I just saw Devin's post and thought of Blazing Saddles. Sorry if I offened, it 'twas not my intention.
"Rape...murder...arson and rape."
"You said rape twice."
"I like rape."

"Number six? I'm afraid I'm not familiar with that one."
"That's where we go a-ridin into town, a-whompin and a-whomin every livin thing within an inch of its' life. Cept the womenfolk of course."
"You spare the women?"
"Nawwww, we rape the shit outta them at the number six dance that night."

Who says rape can't be funny?
post #29 of 91
I like the sting you get the morning after you've had really good sex. Not necessarily rough sex, but good sex none the less.
post #30 of 91
How about crippling punches to the solar plexus during oral sex?
post #31 of 91
can't say i've done that before!
post #32 of 91
Tie them up with extension cords, hang them upside down, kick their teeth out, and leave them hanging unconcious with a hot dog weiner hanging out of their mouth.
post #33 of 91
FOr me the pain of the moment increases the pleasure. The Yin and Yang if you will make the experience more complete. Having scars down my back from where my girlfriend dug into tight, or nipples so sore they ache all day. The best is when you have been with some one and they know what you want and when you want it. How rough is too rough is a hard thing to figure out with some one new.
post #34 of 91
I am a crossdresser and I abslolutely love rough sex.I have a ponytail and I like it pulled during sex.I like to get my face hit during sex also.It is a real turn on to see 2 black eyes after sex.I have a hard time finding guys to do this to me.They feel they will get in trouble but I would never turn someone in for something that turns me on.
post #35 of 91
I dig it rough. Bites, bruises, scratch and claw marks are fine with me. I was with a woman for a while who was as kinky as wadded up garden hose. She was really into breath play. Her favorite thing was to wear a dog choker and have a leash attached to it. She then had me jack-hammer her with all I had from behind while gradually tightening the choke chain around her neck ultimately getting to its tightest tolerable point as she came. This was wildfire, I tell ya. I'd never thought of even asking any woman I was with before hand of anything like that, but once I tried it I realized I really enjoyed it. It was always the aforementiond clawing, biting, and hair pulling. She really got off on it and I got off knowing how much she got off. We also did this other thing where she was handcuffed behind her back so she couldn't use her hands for support and while I went at it it basically drove her head and face into the pillows. As a bonus I could grab the cuffs and use them as a device to manhandle her, pulling her up from prone toward me, flipping her over etc. which drove her into a fuck frenzy. I kinda wish I was still with her but ultimately it didn't work out.
post #36 of 91
All of you were molested/abused/neglected as a child. Pick.

That is all.
post #37 of 91
This thread is fucking old.

But I'll bite.

I like it fast and hard, but getting bruised or putting bruises on someone else is totally not my thing. Luckily I've never had sex with anyone who asked me to choke them or slap them or whatever, couldn't bring myself to do it.

On the flipside of that, I do, on occassion, wear a demon mask whilst doing my plowing, its just funny to me.
post #38 of 91
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Originally Posted by Léonard Part 6
All of you were molested/abused/neglected as a child. Pick.

That is all.
Yeah that'd be what i'd put my money on as well.
post #39 of 91
Excellent *bump*.
post #40 of 91
This was bumped, like yesterday. How dare you try to bump the bumped thread!
post #41 of 91
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Originally Posted by Sexyamy
I am a crossdresser and I abslolutely love rough sex.I have a ponytail and I like it pulled during sex.I like to get my face hit during sex also.It is a real turn on to see 2 black eyes after sex.I have a hard time finding guys to do this to me.They feel they will get in trouble but I would never turn someone in for something that turns me on.
I think I know of a couple guys who would be happy to oblige you with the ass-kicking part, but unfortunately for you would refrain from the sex portion.
post #42 of 91
Boy you're distasteful.
post #43 of 91
Biggest problem with this forum: it's hard to tell who Devin is referring to.
post #44 of 91
He's talking about this guy-

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Originally Posted by devincf
I heard that girl needed five stitches in her asshole.
post #45 of 91
It was a true fact!
post #46 of 91
Quote:
Originally Posted by devincf
Boy you're distasteful.
Offended easliy?
At least you didn't label me a racist in this thread.
post #47 of 91
I am not offended easily at all. You just seem like a real asshole. Racist and gay bashing - a wondrous combo.
post #48 of 91
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Originally Posted by devincf
I am not offended easily at all. You just seem like a real asshole. Racist and gay bashing - a wondrous combo.
Dude...that post was probably bullshit, and my joke - while it may not have been in the best taste, was a joke nonetheless. My brother, uncle and cousin are gay, so I understand, accept and have absolutely no problems with that lifestyle.

As for a racist, well, I know I'm not. Whether you believe that or not is your call.
As for an asshole...well, sometimes.
post #49 of 91
My lordy, this is a thread about violent fucking; take the cat fight elsewhere.
post #50 of 91
I hope the gentleman were not being serious when they mentioned that everyone who digs rough sex has been interfered with as a child.
I haven't been, and i love rough sex. there is nothing better than when things are really really hot, you suddenly get bitten and scratched half to death.
People who dont like it all seem to think sex has to be "magic" and "beautiful"

Yawn.
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