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post #1 of 17
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I have to admit that I have never been to a strip club. Maybe I need to change that wink

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CLEVELAND-- Some couples are trading in dinner and a movie for something a little more exotic -- they're going to strip clubs.

Cleveland television station WEWS reported that the new trend is raising some eyebrows.

Christine and Scott got tired of movies, coffee shops and the bar scene.

"We're not ostracized for looking at other people. The female body is beautiful," Christine said.

So they're spicing things up a lot.

"It's a fun thing to do, better than sitting at the bar drinking looking at the wall, right?" Christine asked.

"It's nice to be with a date I know we're sworn together. It's a fun environment. She can be comfortable. I can be comfortable. It's a good time for everybody," Scott said.

At Christie's Cabaret, nearly half the customers on a weeknight are women on dates. Dancers and managers said just a few years ago that a guy would be in the doghouse if his girlfriend or wife knew he went to a place like that, but now more women stand by their man and go with him.

"It's not as taboo. Some of the women that come here end up working in this atmosphere," Christie's manager Michael Cappa said.

"[There's] a lot more women bringing boyfriends, girlfriends. We enjoy dancing for the women as well," dancer Trina said.

Steph admits she felt awkward the first time her boyfriend Michael brought her to the strip club, but not anymore.

After doing research at the club, Kiska reported that of the 100 customers, about 40 of them were women.

One dancer told Kiska that when the local sports teams go on a losing streak, fewer fans go to games and so fewer fans go out downtown -- that cuts their tips by more than half.
post #2 of 17
I'd like to find just the right girl that would enjoy doing something like that.
post #3 of 17
Thread Starter 
My best friend was a stripper for a while and she said it was very common to see the men bringing their dates there (and wives). Obviously not on the FIRST date wink

I wouldn't mind going, but my boyfriend doesn't like strip clubs so I don't see it happening anytime soon wink
post #4 of 17
There's a couple of really cool places here in town...but my favorite one that was open, like forever, closed not too long ago. Met a couple of "stars" there.

Heh heh...
post #5 of 17
My wife said she'd like to go, only I'd be forbidden to get any lap dances.

You think she'd relent if I bought her one first?
Actually, I think she would just crack up and giggle uncontrollably through the whole thing. She's let it be known that she has zero interest in women sexually.

Maybe she can still be corrupted by relentless trips to the club...nah.
post #6 of 17
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Shelby:
My best friend was a stripper for a while and she said it was very common to see the men bringing their dates there (and wives). Obviously not on the FIRST date wink

I wouldn't mind going, but my boyfriend doesn't like strip clubs so I don't see it happening anytime soon wink
Wait a second, your BOYfriend doesnt like strip clubs? What kinda man is he? JK.
post #7 of 17
Hey DJ

I don't like 'em either.

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post #8 of 17
I was totally kidding.
post #9 of 17
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Xymog:
What's old is new again. My wife's parents and another couple would go to a local strip club here in Ballard 'way back when (circa 1955-1960). I don't think it was full frontal, probably just bouncing boobs, but apparently they had a lot of fun being "party animals."

Today her dad is a fairly quiet guy, not prone to craziness, but I'm told he was much different when he was younger.
The Sands!
post #10 of 17
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Shelby:
I wouldn't mind going, but my boyfriend doesn't like strip clubs so I don't see it happening anytime soon wink
Okay, Shel, bear with me for a sec. I've got an idea.

You're curious about going to a strip club, but you're pretty sure your SO wouldn't be that into it.

Okay, the salient facts here are that (1) you have the desire to go, and (2) the desire probably isn't present in a person who is by all accounts a very loving partner.

I'm willing to bet that a LOT of couples have been in this situation before, just with the positions reversed: Your role is the one that would traditionally belong to the man, and your guy is filling the woman's role. So try this one on for size: Why not embrace that role reversal full on, and do what probably millions of guys who've found themselves in your position have done, and ask him to go to a strip club with you?

Just flat out tell him that it's something you'd like to experience and you'd love it if he'd do it with you, which given what I know of you from our communications on these boards, is the truth.

Just a thought.
post #11 of 17
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DJ Dylan:
Wait a second, your BOYfriend doesnt like strip clubs? What kinda man is he? JK.
A considerate one. For many people it's too degrading.

I personally think it depends on the strip club. Like all things in life there are good ones and bad ones.

A bad one has no rules or regulations, the customers are rude and aggressive, and the staff treat the dancers like property.

A good strip club has rules that are enforced, the customers are fairly well behaved (I understand that it *is* a strip club), and the women are respected employees.

A funny story is one time my fellow co-workers threw a goodbye party for a coworker who was leaving the company at a bar. Right next to the bar was a strip club. Guess where we ended up at the ned of the night. It was funny because we ordered her a lap dance, but she didn't want it because she is a woman and the strippers were all women. A male coworker said he'd take it instead and the stripper dissed him, saying she would rather do the woman!

Why is it that so many strippers are lesbian? Is it the fact that men don't turn them on, so they feel like they can keep emotions out of it? Do they hate men and the job just reinforces their sick view of how disgusting men are?
post #12 of 17
A very large percentage of their customers are not gentlemen.

You've got various types of dancers. Unfortunately, the ones who actually LIKE their jobs are in the minority.
post #13 of 17
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Diva:


Why is it that so many strippers are lesbian? Is it the fact that men don't turn them on, so they feel like they can keep emotions out of it? Do they hate men and the job just reinforces their sick view of how disgusting men are?
I have never met a stripper that was a Lesbian. Almost ALL the strippers that I have met were Bisexual though. Maybe they are more open sexually that's why they are strippers? I really thinks its a money thing because DAMN my friend made MASSIVE amounts of money. If I had a better body I would have been stripping right along with her. I mean, lots of money.

And I don't think guys that go to strip clubs are disgusting. I'm sure there are bad apples in the bunch but not enough so to classify ALL the men as disgusting. Also of the strippers that I knew, not one hated men. Not one. In fact they loved men

But that's just from the ones that I knew.
post #14 of 17
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Hellblazer: Original Sins:

Just flat out tell him that it's something you'd like to experience and you'd love it if he'd do it with you, which given what I know of you from our communications on these boards, is the truth.

Just a thought.
Oh, if I said something like that I am sure he would go, but his think is that he loves money and would hate to give it to strippers

Its because of his love of money that he refuses to gamble too

He misses out on all the fun things
post #15 of 17
I didn't say that I think men are disgusting. I was just trying to figure out if lesbian strippers were one of those "feminazis" who think that a penis should be the most hated thing in the world.

And if anyone was a regular fan of HBO's "G-String Divas" you would also see that many of the strippers mentioned they were lesbians.
post #16 of 17
There's a Centerfold's here in Sacramento. It's the same club where Christian Stripper Mom works.

Although I've never seen her work...
post #17 of 17
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Xymog:
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Mad_Man_Mundt:
[The Sands!
&lt;ding! ding! ding!&gt; We have a winner! Interesting factoid: Mrs. Xymog and I live just a few blocks away from there, and a bit farther from Centerfolds (the male strip club for ladies only). Normally you wouldn't find "those places" anywhere near a residential area, but apparently there's a grandfather clause in Seattle's anti-strip-club ordinance. Since they have been around since fig leaves were high fashion, they got to stay.

For some reason I knew and then forgot that you were a fellow Seattlite. Way cool, bro!
I used to live up that way. On 67th and Mary NW.
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