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Andre Dellamorte:
some of us feel that after Django got booted (the last two times) and with the addition of Star Chamber, that the attitude around the place is "Freedom of Speech, but watch what you say." |
That's certainly not my intention, nor the case. I think it's more like this: The place got a little fat and lazy, and I brought an efficiency expert in and there's a violent reaction to this weird thing called RULES.
I'll be honest, my plan ain't flawless. This new for me too. I've got shit coming from all directions, and I felt that the SC would help. There's plenty of freedom of speech, except people have to realize this isn't an aqueduct wall for which to spray your graffitti. It's a movie discussion board and other forums that need to be at least remotelt adhered to.
I've got it coming from all directions, man. I've got a guy who works on my site getting into tiffs with my MB people, I've got constant hardship getting paid for ads (It's been 5 months since I got a check), and now Arsenault emails me asking for the money he gave to CHUD 2 years ago now that we're not friends anymore. All sides, people.
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Andre Dellamorte:
if we have any criticisms of the site, or the way things are run, or even disagree with Nick too directly that they will be shot down. Which is what turned Django into some people's favorite chewers, and an apparent martyr (for the record my favorite chewer is myself). What Django was known for was sticking to his guns, for right or wrong, and (without knowing the full story) his unregistration reflects that, and crystalizes that fear that we should bite our tounges. What makes Django so dangerous, such a pain in the site's ass, that he can't be a part of this? |
What happened to Django is about 2 years too late. He had his moments for sure, but he also stepped out of line a whole lot. Two of the main editors of the site told me he needed to go or they would. I still let him back and he spit in my face. He's the exception to the rule. I banned him not because of what he said on the boards but because he violated an agreement and then acted like he showed me up, when in fact all he did was show his ass.
Criticism is fine. I used to have a forum for it but it was rarely used. That said, the boards have a real problem with staying on topic (read this thread for evidence) and the point got lost. With a critism of my site or boards, I want it to be lucid and untainted. I'd also prefer it be in email so it can be addressed properly. If it's something like "I don't like your color scheme or a criticism of a comment", so be it. If it's something like "Nick, this is the Gestapo..." it needs to be private. Keep in mind that my business associates, family, and potential advertisers look in here too.
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Andre Dellamorte:
And from some of the attitude viewed over at Devin's site, and in some of Nick's post, and the shut down of the boards, is that Nick feels like this board doesn't really help the site, and is a gift from him to us. And the shutdown reflects this attitude. This may be Nick Nunziata's CHUD, but I think by putting so much time into the site a lot of us feel that we are part of CHUD too, not the most vital part, but one of things that makes Chud great. |
The board does very little for the site, all said. The best thing it does is allow a clear form of communication between site and readers and readers and readers. The only people who should be on here are readers. The Chewers are much less a part of CHUD now than a few years ago. There was a time when i allowed Chewers to have their own columns on the site and it went to hell. Now, I see more Chewers linking or mentioning other sites than ours. It's a weird thing.
Bottom line. It is MY CHUD, and if things work out, the bond between site and boards will strengthen rather than wither.
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Andre Dellamorte:
the message I feel I get most often from you, Nick (since you aren't around as much) is that we're a pain in your ass. The attitude you presented over at Devin's site seemed to suggest that. And then you slagged on us for not being entertaining enough. And that makes me not want to be here. Maybe that's just me though. |
Look, I went over there and saw all sorts of anti CHUD sentiment. That's disrepect. The Chewers aren't a pain in my ass, but people who don't appreciate the site and have to go over there to bitch are. I make myself available. I am on the boards, on IM, in email every day. It should never get to the point where people have to go over there with anti CHUD stuff. CHUD brought most of us together, and it's selling the site and the friendships made real short.
I slagged on people because the quality of the boards is entirely in our hands. We (all the MB folk) are at fault, and it's rather convinient to say you feel a certain sense of ownership over the boards because of your contribution but not make the effort to better them.
Regarding Kirby... I'll miss him. But I miss a lot of people, too many to name. We've been here a few years now. People change. Life goes on.
It doesn't have to be so antagonistic, but I have gotten a lot harder of late, a lot less forgiving, and it's because people who should know better taking this mostly free site and boards and still acting like they're owed something.