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The fun of having a low post count....

post #1 of 33
12/4/02 at 6:26pm
Thread Starter 
... is that no one gives a shit what you have to say.

Tell me in long threads you don 't just skip past the posts of us lesser known Chewers? I rarely ever see anyone who's not a 'regular' be quoted, or even directly replied to. Hell, I even sometimes find myself scanning through threads looking for posts by only my favorite CHUD characthers... (Devin, Django, Micah, etc....).
Anway, it sucks.

Just needed to get that off my chest.
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post #2 of 33
12/4/02 at 6:34pm
Newbies aren't zebras. They have to earn their stripes.
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post #3 of 33
12/4/02 at 6:38pm
Winjer, you've been registered longer than I have, and I don't consider myself a newbie.

Step up to the plate and contribute. I think that all are welcome around here.
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post #4 of 33
12/4/02 at 6:40pm
yes... respect is earned. i'm closing in on 600, and i still feel like an outsider looking in.

but here at chud, it's not the post quantity, it's the quality. when thoughtful insights are posted, they are noticed. the people here are openminded, and will respond to anyone.
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post #5 of 33
12/4/02 at 6:44pm
Yeah, just keep at it...
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post #6 of 33
12/4/02 at 6:45pm
Quote:
Boomstick:
yes... respect is earned. i'm closing in on 600, and i still feel like an outsider looking in.

but here at chud, it's not the post quantity, it's the quality. when thoughtful insights are posted, they are noticed. the people here are openminded, and will respond to anyone.
Exactly. If you contribute to the discussion at hand, rather than just racking up post numbers on pointless thoughts, people will grow to like you a lot better.

I personally do not care too much how many stars or posts I have. I just like to add my two cents when it counts.
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post #7 of 33
12/4/02 at 6:52pm
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The Last Devil Unicorn:
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Boomstick:
yes... respect is earned. i'm closing in on 600, and i still feel like an outsider looking in.

but here at chud, it's not the post quantity, it's the quality. when thoughtful insights are posted, they are noticed. the people here are openminded, and will respond to anyone.
Exactly. If you contribute to the discussion at hand, rather than just racking up post numbers on pointless thoughts, people will grow to like you a lot better.

I personally do not care too much how many stars or posts I have. I just like to add my two cents when it counts.
ooooh, not so fast, unicorn. i love stars... they help my self-esteem.
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post #8 of 33
12/4/02 at 7:01pm
Quote:
Winjer:
... is that no one gives a shit what you have to say.

Tell me in long threads you don 't just skip past the posts of us lesser known Chewers? I rarely ever see anyone who's not a 'regular' be quoted, or even directly replied to. Hell, I even sometimes find myself scanning through threads looking for posts by only my favorite CHUD characthers... (Devin, Django, Micah, etc....).
Anway, it sucks.

Just needed to get that off my chest.
Hell I still don't get quoted unless I come ou with something "outrageous"

So it doesn't always apply like you say.
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post #9 of 33
12/4/02 at 7:02pm
Respect isn't earned by post totals. I've seen newbies come on and in their first post have impressed me and won my respect. Respect comes from post quality, not quantity. Another example... Verbal has been around for ages, and I still hate the fucker.
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post #10 of 33
12/4/02 at 7:35pm
I can't think of anything clever to say...

My post count is miniscule. And my opinions probably aren't read.

That may be due to the fact that I don't make any my opinions clear. But that is no excuse.
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post #11 of 33
12/4/02 at 8:08pm
Sadly, the only posts I skip past now are ones about Star Wars.
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post #12 of 33
12/4/02 at 8:14pm
Having a big post count doesn't earn one notoriety. Look at me, I just recently broke 1000, but does anyone care about what I have to say? No, which enables me to insult the jews without repercussion.
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post #13 of 33
12/4/02 at 8:15pm
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Matt Goldberg:
Having a big post count doesn't earn one notoriety. Look at me, I just recently broke 1000, but does anyone care about what I have to say? No, which enables me to insult the jews without repercussion.
I actually enjoy reading your thoughts. Of course, that doesn't mean shit.
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post #14 of 33
12/4/02 at 10:06pm
Thread Starter 
Hehe... gawd I love CHUD.

Anyway... I come to the forums every day, a few times each day in fact... and I just adore reading what everyone else has to say. Unfortunatley, I don't usually have the time or motivation to post very often, but when I do post... it's usually because I feel pretty strongly about the topic. It's just unfortunate that occasional posters like myself and many others aren't usually granted the same amount of attention, whereas someone will stop off and check every post by Verbal, even though it may only be 'LOL. I'd fuck her'.

It makes sense, and it can't be changed... it's just a little bothersome sometimes.
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post #15 of 33
12/5/02 at 2:58pm
If I'm not too interested in the tread I usually skim. And more than likely I won't post at all.

Now if I'm READING a thread. I read everyone's post and then replay the best I think I can. If I don't quote you, it doesn't mean I didn't read your post. It just didn't have a huge impact on me to quote it.

And that's the way it is cause billylve said so!
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post #16 of 33
12/6/02 at 3:10am
Hi Winjer, it is nice to meet you. I am purple_hazed, and I am crazy. I am not so sure you would want me replying to you too much anyway. LOL, Just kidding.

I am crazy Winjer..that is the truth.

I, however, wanted you to tell you that I am glad to meet you. Well, I already said that.

Anyway, take care.

Love,
purple_hazed
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post #17 of 33
12/6/02 at 7:04am
Just like you Winjer, I would visit CHUD often, but feel like I had nothing to contribute. I finally started, and I feel like I'm getting the hang of it. Expressing clear, insightful opinions in writing, especially on a messageboard takes practice. Just contribute when you feel like you have something to say. Keep in mind that most of the people that read this board don't actually post...

Your opinion will be heard, whether you like it or not. One of the best ways to get started is to participate in something like the Mix CD Exchange that happens periodically, or the always fun Drafts, or the Gift Exchange..

Now, back to thinking about what to get Katanga...
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post #18 of 33
12/6/02 at 7:25am
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Winjer:
It's just unfortunate that occasional posters like myself and many others aren't usually granted the same amount of attention.
But how do you know that people aren't paying attention? Sounds to me like your making a lot of assumptions. The more you post, the more you contribute, the more people will grow to know you. It's not an "us and them" situation.
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post #19 of 33
12/6/02 at 8:01am
Dan is right. Just because we don't always reply when you post, doesn't mean we don't like you. I mean, I love my parents, but I don't hug them every single day. Hell, I've been here for over a year and I still post stuff that gets zero reply.

Then again, if you show cleavage like Kitty and Gracie, it could help...
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post #20 of 33
12/6/02 at 8:13am
Welcome, Winjer!

Post and we will read and share.

Poiple, you make me smile. You remind me so much of myself at times. At other times it's like..fuck it, I'm gonna state what I feel anyway. That's what makes CHUD heaven for me. All opinions are welcome. Some days I just need a place to throw punches at the sky and others, give a cyber hug to a friend. It's good to know that there is one place on the internet where you can do both. Thanks Nick, for giving us all the opportunity to be ourselves.
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post #21 of 33
12/6/02 at 8:34pm
Thanks Avalon, I read you facts and to be honest, we are very much alike. We both have red hair, and we were probably born around the same time. Hell, you could be my twin sister. You are kewl Avalon.

Take care,
popple_hazed

Hey WINJER and everybody else on this thread.
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post #22 of 33
12/6/02 at 9:21pm
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Fett
Dan is right. Just because we don't always reply when you post, doesn't mean we don't like you.
Fett is 100% correct; I generally only contribute when my view hasn't already been articulated - so I think nobody pays attention (especially since I don't bother with the threads that are already at 400+ - see Equilibrium and the Two Towers on the main page right now; I mean, the fucking movies aren't even OUT yet!), then Voltes (aka "He who is adored by everyone") names ME as one of the guys whose opinion he agrees with on films.

Just because you don't THINK you're being noticed doesn't mean you aren't being noticed. Just try to post something meaningful.

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Then again, if you show cleavage like Kitty and Gracie, it could help...
Also good advice.
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post #23 of 33
12/6/02 at 9:23pm
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purpled_hazed
Thanks Avalon, I read you facts and to be honest, we are very much alike. We both have red hair, and we were probably born around the same time. Hell, you could be my twin sister. You are kewl Avalon.

Take care,
popple_hazed
Hm...do you also look like Jenny Agutter? My mind is reeling with the possibilities.... wink
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post #24 of 33
12/8/02 at 3:23pm
It is a matter of quality versus quantity. I got respect on the boards almost immediately.
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post #25 of 33
12/8/02 at 3:47pm
I have 500 or so posts, have been on these boards for more than 2 years (and read a lot of insightful opinions, crazy happenings, escalating grudges, phone numbers, and lying about your brother) and yet... does anyone notice?

I know that they don't. Winjer, it doesn't matter. People will respond to this thread and say "yes! you matter!", but in reality, does anyone care? No. We may not have 8,000 posts or a member rating in the double digits or a name that is associated with the so-called CHUD Cliques (they exist here and it sucks, but it happens everywhere else too), but we come and share our opinion. And that should be enough, just getting your voice out there.

So get the attention while you can. But just remember, the quiet ones are the one's you've got to watch out for. We're always watching and learning...
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post #26 of 33
12/8/02 at 10:26pm
I'm not too concerned about earning respect, I havent been here very long. Sometimes I do feel kind of left out when people are telling inside jokes but I figure if I stick around long enough and just give my honest opinion and avoid getting into stupid fights I will do fine. I just love how there are so many fellow movie geeks here to talk to. As long as no one puts me down for being a newbie or ignores me I'm content to stay in the dark. I like the dark.
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post #27 of 33
12/9/02 at 5:45pm
Hey, Winjer, there are actually benefits to having a low post count and low profile. If you post something stupid while drunk (or worse, while sober) it's less likely to come back to haunt you. Also, you are less likely to become embroiled in any soap opera flame wars or tirades (thankfully, these are quite rare around these peaceful parts.) And when you do make an insightful, thought provoking post, people might be more impressed because it seems to come out of nowhere (even if nowhere is more than 2 years on the board. wink )
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post #28 of 33
12/26/02 at 8:48pm
My second post ever elicited the following reply:

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That's what I want to see from more newbies, their first post just full of LOVE for 'Dagon'. Should be a requriment.
And that was from none other than Master Butane himself. So maybe your problem is you just aren't liking the right movies

You could also try posting something somewhat positive about the newest Star Wars movie, maybe something like "Gee, Episode II was kinda cool." It won't be pleasant, but I can almost guarantee you'll get noticed...
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post #29 of 33
12/28/02 at 9:14am
I am brand spankin' new here, but only as a registered member. I've been browsing these boards intently for months now, fascinated by the amount of intelligent, witty and unusual threads and posters at the site. It's intimidating trying to wedge your comments in between long-standing member's, but I'm hoping as long as I stay true to the way I feel and don't try to blatantly earn respect by writing the greatest possible posts, I should survive. It is encouraging to know I'm not alone in feeling this way... By the way, Winjer, I'm assuming you're a fan of Underworld (your name). They're one of my favorite groups - if you ever wanna talk about music, I'm here!

Chris
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post #30 of 33
12/28/02 at 12:28pm
I never had the decency to introduce myself like you have, Chris, which is like showing up uninvited and going straight to the fridge. Welcome to you and all new faces, registered or not!

I like the little, pointless posts. They get me through. They help me vent. They make me laugh. That is better than any post count.
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post #31 of 33
12/28/02 at 5:50pm
I just keep plugging along. Patience and persistence are my virtues, and I try to just be myself. It takes time, but we will all get to know people better with time, and learn a lot about movies in the process. In the mean time, know that your posts are not necessarily ignored just because you are not directly answered or quoted; although, right now, I am wondering when someone will answer my question in the Chewer forum regarding when I can catch Nick on CNN!
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post #32 of 33
12/29/02 at 2:44am
Well, you got some responses.
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post #33 of 33
12/29/02 at 5:22am
Quote:
Yando:
I have 500 or so posts, have been on these boards for more than 2 years (and read a lot of insightful opinions, crazy happenings, escalating grudges, phone numbers, and lying about your brother) and yet... does anyone notice?

I know that they don't. Winjer, it doesn't matter. People will respond to this thread and say "yes! you matter!", but in reality, does anyone care? No. We may not have 8,000 posts or a member rating in the double digits or a name that is associated with the so-called CHUD Cliques (they exist here and it sucks, but it happens everywhere else too), but we come and share our opinion. And that should be enough, just getting your voice out there.

So get the attention while you can. But just remember, the quiet ones are the one's you've got to watch out for. We're always watching and learning...
I am in the same position as you. I posted a decent amount when I first signed on but realized I tend to get into arguments very easily....plus the fact that in the movie threads I almost always agree with at least one persons points. Now I just read in the flick forums and pretty much only post in politics.
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