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To Whom It May Concern (An Apology)

post #1 of 9
Thread Starter 
I write this from the bottom of my heart, as I try to write anything here.

I am truly sorry for the unfortunate situation that is occuring in CHUD right now, specifically in the Chewers Forum. Let me start by saying that I love CHUD, I browsed here for a long time before joining, and I quickly found myself at home as a member. Obviously, I think the site's terrific - full of witty, intelligent reviews and info, etc - but ultimately I think it is the members that make CHUD what it is.

I would never intentionally cause such in-fighting and chaos, and tried in vain to make my idealistic notions understood. If I have offended anyone, or disrespected anyone, I apologize. This was not my intent, not in the least. I chose the wrong tactic to shed light on what I consider to be a problem here - the overabundance of relatively silly threads, and their "clogging up" the works. I made a mistake, and I regret it.

If it's at all possible, I'd really like to get all this craziness resolved with as little hassle or "fighting" as necessary. I am not arrogant enough to assume that I am the sole cause of these problems, but I had something to do with it, and therefore would like to be a part of getting it fixed.

I will do my best to treat everyone objectively, as individuals, and can only hope you will be willing to do the same. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty, in my book, and I automatically respect each of you just for being members of such a quality site and contributing all that you do.

Whether you accept my apology or not, I appreciate you taking the time to hear me out in this matter. If it's at all possible, let's try to wipe the slate clean and start over. If it's not, at least try to understand where I'm coming from.

Nick, I have nothing but the deepest respect for you and your site, and I am truly sorry if any of my actions implied otherwise. I have learned a harsh, but valuable lesson. Thank you, and all those who spend so much time and effort making sure this place stays the outstanding site it is. Know it has not been in vain.
post #2 of 9
Well done Chris.

Nicely said
post #3 of 9
There's a line at the bottom of every page on CHUD. If more people would read it, heed it, love it, and live it, no apologies would ever be necessary.

But that's just me...
post #4 of 9
Kronos speaks truth. Apologies are nice and it's a nice thought, but the best thing to do would be to go out, act kind, and, well, don't screw it.

Edit: PM for you, Kite.

post #5 of 9
Thread Starter 
I most certainly did not do any of this with the intention of "screwing it." No one is perfect, I went about things the wrong way, and I'm sorry. I will continue to contribute to the boards, of course, but I didn't want any further misunderstandings here.
post #6 of 9
No one's alleging that you are screwing it on purpose. The people who do (TOXIK, doc weasel, etc. etc.) are banned.

But when one fucks up (and everyone here has usually fucked up at least once), it's good to humble yourself to this wonderful place brought to us for free by a great webmaster.
post #7 of 9
More people should get banned. As Django or I can tell you, it does wonders for your perspective.
post #8 of 9
Indeed.

Lemme see BIG SMILES...

...just relax and let the hooks do their work...
post #9 of 9
Kiteless, there's nothing wrong with you. I've seen em come, seen em go, seen em get all uppity, seen em bail out. Everyone has made an ass of himself at some point. It doesn't have to turn into Lord of the Flies, and you don't have to be Piggy.
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