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post #1 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:46pm
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My wife just got back from our son's nine month check up. Since his six month check up he's gained less than two ounces and hasn't grown significantly. His motor skills are also not what they should be (i.e. he's not sitting up or crawling). Mentally and emotionally he seems on track (he laughs and plays) and he eats like a champ so we don't know what it is. The docs are doing blood and urine tests to see what's up but it will probably be a week before we hear anything. They say it could be nothing serious but I almost feel like they're reading from some sort of script when they say stuff like that. Your thoughts, prayers, and well wishes are appreciated.

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post #2 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:50pm
That sort of news is my worst nightmare. Ever since Dillon was born, the whole world seems to be full of sharp edges and unseen dangers waiting to strike.

Hope it all turns out for the best - if he's eating and laughing then I can't believe it's anything too serious.
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post #3 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:50pm
Sorry to hear that. Hopefully things work out all right.
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post #4 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:50pm
Consider it done, sir. Would that I could empathise, Scott. I hope I never have to (either for my own kids, or that this is anything serious for yours.)
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post #5 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:50pm
Every child develops differently at their own pace, so hopefully this is the case. Hopes and prayers to you and your family, and much love and toys to the little one.
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post #6 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:52pm
Hope everything turns out okay, Scotty. Thoughts are here, pal.
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post #7 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:52pm
I'll pray for you guys, Scott. Hang in there.
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post #8 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:53pm
I didn't realize your little ones were so little. Mine is 5 months now.

That has the be scariest news. I can imagine how you must be feeling. However, he is developing (laughing and playing and eating) so try not to sweat it too much unless you get confirmation of something to worry about. It may be nothing.
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post #9 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:56pm
Hope everything works out for you and yours Scott. Best wishes and all that good stuff to ya.
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post #10 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:56pm
Hang in there, Scott, and consider well-wishes sent.
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post #11 of 60
6/13/03 at 1:59pm
Quote:
thedudeabides:
Every child develops differently at their own pace, so hopefully this is the case.
I was just thinking this. Dillon was supporting himself and sitting up from only a few months old, but he made absolutely no effort to move himself or crawl until he was 8 months old. And then he went from small movements to zooming all over the floor and standing up within a matter of weeks.

I'm sure you know this, but it's worth hearing it again - there's no set timetable to these things. He might just be saving his energy for a massive development spurt. At this age, it can all change so quickly, I'd try not to worry until there's something definite to worry about.
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post #12 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:04pm
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Thanks guys. That's what I love about this place. I'm trying real hard not to worry adn I think that the only thing tha's gonna keep me sane while Isit here at work today are these boards (of course that's little different from any other day). I'm trying REAL hard not to worry but it's so damn hard when they're this little. I guess it will always be hard though, eh?
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post #13 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:04pm
100% agreement with Dan, et. al. Children develop at their own pace. He could just be a late bloomer. Nevertheless, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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post #14 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:06pm
Well wishes sent your (and your son's) way, Scott.
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post #15 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:09pm
Sorry to hear this, Scott.

My rector's older daughter (who is now 3) didn't walk until after she turned 2 and I believe the only other thing wrong with her is that she is allergic to peanuts in any form and she was normal in every other respect. In fact, she's larger than most 3-year-olds. And I just found out this past Sunday that she is terribly frightened of this older gentleman in town who makes the Donald Duck sound every time her sees her (he doesn't know any better as he is senile.)

And I have a 6-year-old cousin named Lanier who had some motor skill problems and learning deficiencies and it was eventually discovered that she was born with more mercury in her blood than normal (it was originally thought to be some form of autism.) We see Lanier and her family every 4th of July and when we saw her in 2001, she hadn't changed much since the years before. Her mom had been working with her to help her walk, talk, etc. But, the condition was appropriately diagnosed between the summers of 2001 and 2002, so when we saw her last summer, she was much more responsive and interactive with everyone. They had her on a very special diet. She had to have a special kind of bread and no dairy, but the results were amazing.

Good luck with whatever the doctors tell you and here's hoping nothing is wrong. My prayers are with you and your family.

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post #16 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:18pm
Best wishes, Mr. Roche.
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post #17 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:29pm
I am sure that in good time, all will be well. That kid is half of a nifty tag team.

Our thoughts and/or prayers are with you here in DFW.
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post #18 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:35pm
Everything will be fine, buddy.

Thoughts..prayers...blood sacrifices to the nine-breasted, six-horned she-ram of Kali on the way!
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post #19 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:43pm
I truly hope everything works out for the best. Make sure you let us know if everything is fine.
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post #20 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:45pm
I have a feeling that your pediatrician is absolutely right, and it is nothing to worry about.

Remember this, they always have to give you the worst case scenario on anything.

You and yours are in my thoughts.

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post #21 of 60
6/13/03 at 2:57pm
This can be a new parents worst nightmare. With our first child arriving in late September, this hits me hard...
My sister recently took her 2 year old in for a check-up and the Doctor thought she saw a tongue quiver associated with neurological problems. He doesn't really talk much, although his recognition and comprehension skills are fabulous, so the Pediatrician got my sister all worried about his development. Tests were booked, and wouldn't you know it - he started talking non-stop 2 days after the appointment. You can't get him to shut up.
So, I think the point is definitely that they do things in their own time.
Best of luck to you, and remember - no matter what, you'll be able to get through it.
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post #22 of 60
6/13/03 at 3:44pm
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Scott.
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post #23 of 60
6/13/03 at 3:51pm
Stay strong, Scott. Children develop "normally" in a variety of ways, and I was one that grew a bit weirdly, too. All will happen for the best.
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post #24 of 60
6/13/03 at 3:54pm
Scott, you have my thoughts, my prayers, and my good wishes for your baby, you and yours.

I hope everything will turn out alright, I sure it will.

Cheers man!
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post #25 of 60
6/13/03 at 4:47pm
My niece did almost exactly the same thing, Scott. She didn't gain much between 6-8 months, but she was mentally and physically active. After that time though, she shot up. Now a few months away from 4 years old, she's kicking everyone's ass in school...

Either way, I'm praying for you and your family...
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post #26 of 60
6/13/03 at 4:59pm
Scott, I wish all the best for you and your family. As others have mentioned, I'm sure your son is fine. He just wants to do things at his own pace. Stay strong and know that everyone here at CHUD is sending you their thoughts and prayers.
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post #27 of 60
6/13/03 at 6:07pm
Best wishes to you and your family, hopefully it is nothing major.
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post #28 of 60
6/13/03 at 6:10pm
All the good Chewer mojo seemed to work for my mom, so I am more than happy to return the favor and send good thoughts your way.
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post #29 of 60
6/13/03 at 7:39pm
Quote:
Scott Roche:
My wife just got back from our son's nine month check up. Since his six month check up he's gained less than two ounces and hasn't grown significantly. His motor skills are also not what they should be (i.e. he's not sitting up or crawling). Mentally and emotionally he seems on track (he laughs and plays) and he eats like a champ so we don't know what it is. The docs are doing blood and urine tests to see what's up but it will probably be a week before we hear anything. They say it could be nothing serious but I almost feel like they're reading from some sort of script when they say stuff like that. Your thoughts, prayers, and well wishes are appreciated.
I wouldn't worry about it too much at the moment Scott. My brother went through something similar a few years ago with his own child (IIRC, the kid actually lost half a pound in weight over a two-month period!).

Today he's the human equivalent of Jabba the Hutt (minus the money and foxy slave-girls).

Just stay cool for the moment; I'm sure everything will work out.
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post #30 of 60
6/13/03 at 8:18pm
Scott, I am sending you an extra helping of good thoughts and some serious *hugs*. I'm sure everything will be fine. My little one has been underweight for her age for some time, it turns out her body type is simply tall and stick thin. She gets this ALL from her father, of course! If he seems happy and content I'm sure he is just going (and growing) at his own pace. But until the good news comes rest assured you have many a Chewer shoulder to lean on. xoxo.
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post #31 of 60
6/13/03 at 8:39pm
I hope it's nothing serious. I don't really want kids of my own, but ever since my sister had her son (he's 4) I've relished my role as Uncle Bill. Try not to worry too much, it will all turn out fine. I'll send some positive thoughts your way, Scott.
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post #32 of 60
6/13/03 at 8:56pm
Well wishes comin' your way, Scott. I hope your son's up and crawling like a master in no time.
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post #33 of 60
6/13/03 at 9:24pm
Redundant to observe this I see, but I will anyway, that there are no hard and fast rules on these things. Every family I know that has more than two kids will tell you that one lagged worryingly or ran ahead in a scary burnout type way. They all got to the same place in the end.

They're just checking. If it is something, then the sooner they catch it the more minimal fuss involved in fixing it.

I'm thinking of you, dude.
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post #34 of 60
6/14/03 at 11:50am
I´m sure he will be okay Scott. Best wishes.
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post #35 of 60
6/14/03 at 7:20pm
I wasn't potty trained until just last year, so it goes to show you that nobody grows in a set pattern.

In all seriousness, I hope things turn out right.
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post #36 of 60
6/14/03 at 8:54pm
Best wishes for your family and the little lad Scott.
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post #37 of 60
6/14/03 at 9:05pm
Best wishes comin' your way.
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post #38 of 60
6/14/03 at 9:10pm
Hope it's nothing, Scott. My prayers are with you and your family.

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post #39 of 60
6/14/03 at 11:19pm
I can only imagine how horrible it feels to worry about your child's health. My love and prayers go out to you and yours.
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post #40 of 60
6/15/03 at 12:38am
Is his head large?
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post #41 of 60
6/15/03 at 12:54am
Yet more best wishes thrown your way... all the best.
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post #42 of 60
6/15/03 at 1:36am
Don't worry, Scottie.

My nephew was born two-months early, well, he came out one month early, but my sister was forced to stay in bed the previous month.

It was tricky there for awhile. Everyone thought he was going to be born retarded or with some other mental problems.

Hell, when he was 6 months old some relatives thought he might be deaf because he didnt react to noise properly.

He was a slow-learner is all. He didn't talk till he was almost 4, was a small baby, hardly ate at all.

The boy is now 15 and despite his parents screwing him up for life, he's doing fine.

Don't sweat the small stuff.
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post #43 of 60
6/16/03 at 6:13am
I'm sure everything will be fine mate.
I remember my best mate when he and his missus had Dana, they were worried out of their heads because she took what they felt like an age to just crawl.
And after they took her to the Docs she reassured them that (like many have said here) all kids develope at different rates.
I can understand your concern pal but hang on in there, your ickle'un will be scaling the dizzy heights of your bookcases and hiding your car keys in time.
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post #44 of 60
6/23/03 at 1:09pm
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Well the blood tests came out clear (not like Crystal Pepsi clear but like healthy), so that's a relief. The doctor says we'll just wait and see about his future growth patterns, he has a checkup in six more weeks. She does want him to do a couple of physical/play therapy sessions with a specialist to jumpstart his sitting up and crawling. Physical therapist for babies, how cool of a job would that be?

I want to thank everyone for their prayers and well-wishes!
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post #45 of 60
6/23/03 at 1:26pm
Play therapy... for a kid. Lucky lil tyke. He's in friggin toddler heaven.
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post #46 of 60
6/23/03 at 1:37pm
Good news. Keep the little one playin'.
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post #47 of 60
6/23/03 at 1:42pm
Quote:
Scott Roche:
Physical therapist for babies, how cool of a job would that be?

I want to thank everyone for their prayers and well-wishes!
It would be a cool job.

Glad to hear the tests came back without too many issues. My thoughts and prayers continue to remain with you and your family.
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post #48 of 60
6/23/03 at 2:07pm
Great news, Scott. One day, we'll be voting for the kid.
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post #49 of 60
6/23/03 at 2:32pm
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Even if he's a staunch Republican like his Mom?
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post #50 of 60
6/23/03 at 3:13pm
I'm sure some of us will, even then.
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