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Scary Phone Calls

post #1 of 10
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I receieved a call to my cell phone today at work. Unfortunately my office is where all cell phone calls go to die so all I heard before the inevitable "drop" was my mother-in-law saying that my seven and a half year old son had been hurt in an accident with a car.

I tried to get a hold of her for a couple of minutes to no avail when she finally called me on my office phone. Turns out that my son crashed his bike into a parked car while doing a trick at a pretty high speed and was only scratched up a bit. He was barely hurt, but somehow managed to imbed his handlebar into the brake/parking lights of a new Nissan Altima. It took a couple of people to get the bike loose and the lights and casing were destroyed.

I love my mother-in-law (she is saint), but that was the worst opening line to a phone call I've ever had. I was frantic until I heard the final story. Bikes and cars can be fixed easily, but kids aren't quite so durable.

Anyone else have any brutal phone calls or messages that turned out to be not nearly as bad as they could have been?
post #2 of 10
Not that I can recollect, but it's good to hear that your kid is okay.
post #3 of 10

Re: Scary Phone Calls

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Originally posted by Farmer Vincent's fritters
I receieved a call to my cell phone today at work. Unfortunately my office is where all cell phone calls go to die so all I heard before the inevitable "drop" was my mother-in-law saying that my seven and a half year old son had been hurt in an accident with a car.

I tried to get a hold of her for a couple of minutes to no avail when she finally called me on my office phone. Turns out that my son crashed his bike into a parked car while doing a trick at a pretty high speed and was only scratched up a bit. He was barely hurt, but somehow managed to imbed his handlebar into the brake/parking lights of a new Nissan Altima. It took a couple of people to get the bike loose and the lights and casing were destroyed.

I love my mother-in-law (she is saint), but that was the worst opening line to a phone call I've ever had. I was frantic until I heard the final story. Bikes and cars can be fixed easily, but kids aren't quite so durable.

Anyone else have any brutal phone calls or messages that turned out to be not nearly as bad as they could have been?
Oh my god I think I would have absolutely gone out of my mind! I don't even want to think about it considering the fact that I'm still deep in the throes of "new mommy paranoia" (my son is 2). I worry enough without someone giving me an actual reason to. I'm so glad your son is ok.

Luckily the worst call I've had so far (*knocks on wood*) was one from my son's daycare about a year ago telling me that he had taken a header off the swings and cut his forehead open and needed to go to the emergency room. Let me tell you, I made that 20 minute drive in under 10 minutes. It turned out to be a pretty bad gash too...I could actually see straight through to the bone. I'm sure I don't have to tell you about how bad head wounds bleed, so when I first saw him, I was positive he was going to bleed to death. It ended up taking 10 stitches to patch him up, which may not seem that bad, but that's an awful lot of stitches in such a tiny little head.
post #4 of 10
Farmer, glad your son is ok.
I don't have any children yet , but I'm already dreading the day one of them is hurt. That is scary to get the phone call like that, and to have the signal disappear on you. I feel for ya, but I'm glad it turned out well.
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Farmer, glad your son is ok.
I don't have any children yet , but I'm already dreading the day one of them is hurt. That is scary to get the phone call like that, and to have the signal disappear on you. I feel for ya, but I'm glad it turned out well.
Living with fear is part of being a parent.

No phone call stories but years ago my oldest daughter had what was called a 'Vegal' episode while taking a bath. I guess what happens is that the brain functions we all take for granted (breathing, heart beat, etc) get mixed up. In my daughters case she passed out. Thankfully my wife was nearby or she could have drowned. I was in the basement when she yelled my name. I'll never forget that sound. I ran upstairs and found my wife holding my daughter in her arms, My kid's eyes were rolled back in her head and she was blue. We didn't know what was going on but kept our heads, called 911 and tried to keep her awake. I took her outside hoping cold, fresh air would revive her and thankfully it did. By the time the ambulance got there she was coming to and the episode never returned and she seems to be 100% healthy now (many many tests and doc visits, this isn't just an assumption).

For many years I was also handled fatality and catastrophic injury claims for an insurance company. A good share of my time was spent dealing with kid vs car claims that don't have happy endings. I frequently had discussions with parents who just lost their kids.

Also, one of my co-workers is out looking for a little suit to bury her dying, 9 year old son in.

The point? You can piss and moan about your job, your car, you're friends, George Lucas and Bunny Dracula. But try to keep in mind that there is absolute real terror out there and, at the end of the day, be thankful if your not one of the people living through it.
post #6 of 10
The scariest phone call I ever got was when an ex girlfriend of mine called me and told me that her brother, a good friend of mine at the time, had committed suicide. I dont think I've ever gotten a call worse then that. I of course had to go over there for her.
post #7 of 10
A co-worker of mine just lost her seven year old daughter to luekemia. Horrible.

The scariest call I've ever had was when my mother called me to tell me that my father had just had a heart attack. The first one of three.

I hate those kinds of calls.
post #8 of 10
Thread Starter 
Thanks everyone. I'm glad to hear that addix and Gus' close calls weren't too serious. Sorry to hear about your loss, Dylan.

When it comes to kids (and I'm sure Addix and gus will agree), it seems like all the dangers of the world are waiting to pounce on them. Most of us have a false sense of security when it comes to taking care of ourselves. We tend to think that we have control over our own fates. With kids, you know you won't always be there to protect them and it can be frightening.
post #9 of 10
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Sorry to hear that kitty.
post #10 of 10
Ive since remained good friends with the girl. Its rough sometimes though. Just seeing things that remind us of him in her house......ughh.
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