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post #1 of 37
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Well since I couldnt find a thread I thought I would start one.

Although my respect for him is ever waning, Eberts view

" Mike Nichols' "Closer" is a movie about four people who richly deserve one another. Fascinated by the game of love, seduced by seduction itself, they play at sincere, truthful relationships which are lies in almost every respect, except their desire to sleep with each other. All four are smart and ferociously articulate, adept at seeming forthright and sincere even in their most shameless deceptions.

"The truth," one says. "Without it, we're animals." Actually, truth causes them more trouble than it saves, because they seem compelled to be most truthful about the ways in which they have been untruthful. There is a difference between confessing you've cheated because you feel guilt and seek forgiveness, and confessing merely to cause pain.

The movie stars, in order of appearance, Jude Law, Natalie Portman, Julia Roberts and Clive Owen. Law plays Dan, who writes obituaries for his London newspaper; Portman is Alice, an American who says she was a stripper and fled New York to end a relationship; Roberts is Anna, an American photographer; and Owen is Larry, a dermatologist. The characters connect in a series of Meet Cutes that are perhaps no more contrived than in real life. In the opening sequence, the eyes of Alice and Dan (Natalie Portman and Jude Law) meet as they approach each other on a London street. Eye contact leads to an amused flirtation, and then Alice, distracted, steps into the path of a taxicab. Knocked on her back, she opens her eyes, sees Dan, and says "Hello, stranger." Time passes. Dan writes a novel based on his relationship with Alice, and has his book jacket photo taken by Anna, who he immediately desires. More time passes. Dan, who has been with Anna, impersonates a woman named "Anna" on a chat line, and sets up a date with Larry, a stranger. When Larry turns up as planned at the aquarium, Anna is there, but when he describes "their" chat, she disillusions him: "I think you were talking with Daniel Wolf."

Eventually both men will have sex with both women, occasionally as a round trip back to the woman they started with. There is no constancy in this crowd: When they're not with the one they love, they love the one they're with. It is a good question, actually, whether any of them are ever in love at all, although they do a good job of saying they are.

They are all so very articulate, which is refreshing in a time when literate and evocative speech has been devalued in the movies. Their words are by Patrick Marber, based on his award-winning play. Consider Dan as he explains to Alice his job writing obituaries. There is a kind of shorthand, he tells her: "If you say someone was 'convivial,' that means he was an alcoholic. 'Lifelong bachelor' means he was gay. 'Enjoyed his privacy' means he was a raging queen."

Forced to rank the four characters in order of their nastiness, I would place Dr. Larry at the top of the list. He seems to derive genuine enjoyment from the verbal lacerations he administers, pointing out the hypocrisies and evasions of the others.

Dan is an innocent by comparison; he wants to be bad, but isn't good at it. Anna, the photographer, is accurately sniffed out by Alice as a possible lover of Dan. "I'm not a thief, Alice," she says, but she is. Alice seems the most innocent and blameless of the four until the very end of the movie, when we are forced to ask if everything she did was a form of stripping, in which much is revealed, but little is surrendered. "Lying is the most fun a girl can have without taking her clothes off," she tells Dr. Larry, "but it's more fun if you do."

There's a creepy fascination in the way these four characters stage their affairs while occupying impeccable lifestyles. They dress and present themselves handsomely. They fit right in at the opening of Anna's photography exhibition. (One of the photographs shows Alice with tears on her face as she discerns that Dan was unfaithful with Anna; that's the stuff that art is made of, isn't it?) They move in that London tourists never quite see, the London of trendy restaurants on dodgy streets, and flats that are a compromise between affluence and the exorbitant price of housing. There is the sense that their trusts and betrayals are not fundamentally important to them; "You've ruined my life," one says, and then is told, "You'll get over it."

Yes, unless, fatally, true love does strike at just that point when all the lies have made it impossible. Is there anything more pathetic than a lover who realizes he (or she) really is in love, after all the trust has been lost, all the bridges burnt and all the reconciliations used up?

Mike Nichols has been through the gender wars before, in films like "Carnal Knowledge" and "Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf." Those films, especially "Woolf," were about people who knew and understood each other with a fearsome intimacy and knew all the right buttons to push.

What is unique about "Closer," making it seem right for these insincere times, is that the characters do not understand each other, or themselves. They know how to go through the motions of pushing the right buttons, and how to pretend their buttons have been pushed, but do they truly experience anything at all except their own pleasure?


All I can say is still deep in awestruck, this is like the Glengarry Gleen Ross of relationship movies , its just plain brutual, Clive Owen is the stand out, he just crackels, of course he played the charachter on the stage so he has a slight adavantage.

The Broccolis (SP) better erase everybody else of thier Bond list becuse this man now stands alone, before I thought Clive just looked good in a suit and could act fairly well, but Closer changes all of that.

I would like to add more, especially about Natalie, but I need to le it sink in

So those lucky enough to have this grace your local cinema, what do you think??
post #2 of 37
Would love to comment on it but to my suprise it wasn't released in my town... what's with the Wide Release tag but only 500 theaters? Especially with the cast involved and fairly massive ad campaign... I'm guessing there's plans for it to hit more theaters... instead it was the incredibles and polar express hogging 4 screens at the local cineplex (a rather grandiose term for our crappy in-the-mall theater)
post #3 of 37
Yeah, I loved it. A real actor's showcase. Some juicy scenes and brutal (in a good way) dialogue dealing with sex, ego and power (These have always been intertwined). It's very cynical about the human animal and love, so I could see some not warming to the film. The characters are more real (ie: flawed) than we're used to seeing in Hollywood pictures. They're incredibly self-centered about their lust and needs.

The film basically says that people create illusions to fancy up something they selfishly need, whether that be physical love, empowering companionship, or a just a malicious means of hurting others. Love is the ultimate LIE, and when it get's messy (ie: discovered deceit), the truth is right there to be used as a merciless weapon. Dark stuff.

All 4 principals deliver, particularly Clive Owen and Natalie. Even Julia is fine. She's definitely not a liability. There are actually subtle moments on her part that convincingly subvert her star persona.

Natalie naturally shines in this flick. She's a sweetheart in Garden State, but I could definitely see her getting nominated for Best supporting actress here. There is a complexity to this particular characterization that makes me percieve it as her first truly adult role. Don't be surprised if you rethink her whole performance by the end credits. It's that good.

Clive is always charismatic, whether playing a wounded participant in the game of love, or the single minded and ferocious avenging angel, as his ego is on the line. If he played Bond (I know he wont, but if he did), we'd finally have a secret agent to match up to the masculine force that is Connery. He's got that Cary Grant debonair, but the brass balls to have a licence to kill. Great actor.

Jude Law has the toughest role because he's the easiest character to loathe. Dan's a curious combination of selfishness, insecurity, thoughtlessness and naivete. Very hard character to warm to, but I did feel sorry for him by the end of the picture. I think that's a testament to Jude's magnificent talent.

Mike Nichols proves again that you can be over 70 (!), and still be firing on all cylinders. This film is just as distinguished as that other cynical "sex" tale he made over 30 years ago, "Carnal Knowledge".
post #4 of 37
I had no desire to see this at all, but got dragged to it by my girlfriend who thought it was a romcom. She ended up hating it, while I loved it. Great believable characters, realistic story, and probably one of the most uncompromising views about the end of a relationship. Clive Owen just oozes charisma. Highly recommended
post #5 of 37
Stunning film. The last film I saw that was this uncompromising and brutal was Requiem for a Dream. I can see why the film has split in terms of opinions. It most certainly is not for everyone. It's very refreshing to see characters that feels as real as us, and it's more evident in this film than any film I've seen this year. The only one I think can come close is Garden State but that's on the opposite end of the spectrum.

Mecha's analysis of Portman's performance is dead-on. That final image makes you rethink her entire character. It stays with you well after the credits roll. Between this and Garden State, she's had a stellar year.

Clive Owen's performance is one for the record books. Enough can not be said about what he pulls off in this film. His break up scene with Julia is probably the most brutal scene I've seen this year. I've read the play and when that scene came up, it jolted me. After watching on the big screen, I was left in a state of shock. It's not so much the dialogue but the intensity in both Clive and Julia and the sheer brutality of the scene. It's just plain hurtful the way that scene plays.

Also, it's worth mentioning that I think this is Julia's best performance ever. What lept out at me is that we've seen the type of roles Julia's played over the years and her face plays a big part of that. Here, her appearance is a direct contrast of her character and it works all for the better. She comes off really cold but it's totally honest and truthful. She's not sympathetic yet she's probably the most honest of the bunchin the film.

Definitely in my Top 5 this year. I hope everyone gets a chance to experience this film.
post #6 of 37
I had high hopes for this movie, but felt that it ultimately should have stayed a stage play. There wasn't anything about the film visually that really made it stand out as a film, there weren't the kinds of editing tricks and cinematography whizz-bangs that make seeing a movie different than seeing actors on a stage. Really, it always felt like a play to me, and in that sense it really didn't work.

It seems like stage dialog doesn't necessarily work as film dialog. I bought all of the performances and thought the acting was fine, but the whole world of the film seemed hollow. Things that might work better in a play like the dramatic moments over overly-intense lust/love that people seem to share after just meeting, just felt very staged and unreal.

I also had a hard time with the fact that there isn't really anyone in the film with the exception of maybe Alice/Jane that is sympathetic. I realized it was that sort of thing going in, but it's still disappointing somehow to see that writers feel like writing these kinds of stories that don't have any sort of redeeming element for their characters, and vicariously for the audience. I like pathos in movies, and I could relate to the pain in this, but it just seemed overly-dour to me.

Someone mentioned Requiem for a Dream, an even darker and more dour movie than this... but that was a full-on MOVIE, something that needed the format of cinema to work. This, I could have seen the play and been happy. (or not happy, as the case might be )
post #7 of 37
Totally forgettable. Hated it. Pretentious, overrated, much too theatrical and boring as all fuck. Terrible pacing. The scenes just happened; no buildup. There's a bloody good reason stage plays are written for that medium.
post #8 of 37
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Originally Posted by Colt45
Terrible pacing. The scenes just happened; no buildup.
This was my big problem with the film. I just wasn't invested in any of the characters because we never got a chance to be with them. It was one scene, jump a year, next secene, jump two years... It just left me flat. And the ending left me confused. I just didn't get the point of it all. Good acting though.
post #9 of 37
I think CLOSER is a very good movie. It's just, however, not really a great one.

There was this intense sense of urgency Nichols creates between all of the characters and their actions, and I feel that this didn't translate well to me, the viewer. I've thought about the film after seeing it, and I still don't really know why these characters do the things they do to one another other than to fuck their lives up.

I'm tired, so I hope to edit in a more in depth answer later. Sorry.

That said, I found the opening scene was stunningly simplistic and utterly beautiful, although a little too much with the slow motion. Blower's Daughter compliments the scene so wonderfully, and Rice's O is one of my favorite albums of the past couple of years, so there you go.

I have absolutely no idea why Colt45 refers to this as "pretentious" as it is as far from that as possible. Maybe he just didn't connect with it and has to throw that insanely overused and abused word around?
post #10 of 37
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Love is the ultimate LIE, and when it get's messy (ie: discovered deceit), the truth is right there to be used as a merciless weapon.
I disagree wholeheartedly. I don't think any one of these characters knows what love is, except maybe Portman's character at the end, which is ultimately why she left Law's character. They talk a lot about love, but Alice's speech about hearing the words "I love you", but not feeling it or seeing it describes all of them to a "T".
post #11 of 37
You know you're watching something special when you see Clive Owen berating Julia Roberts on a 60 foot screen, asking her if she liked the taste of Jude Law's cum and if she likes sucking him off. I've never seen a movie that had such brutal honesty in it's talk about sex.
post #12 of 37
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Originally Posted by Diva
I disagree wholeheartedly. I don't think any one of these characters knows what love is, except maybe Portman's character at the end, which is ultimately why she left Law's character. They talk a lot about love, but Alice's speech about hearing the words "I love you", but not feeling it or seeing it describes all of them to a "T".
What is "Love", Diva?
post #13 of 37
I just saw this film last night.

My motivation to go was to see Natalie Portman and Clive Owen. This film is definitely disquieting and uncomfortable to watch at times.

Clive Owen is absolutely fantastic. I first remember seeing him in Second Sight. It was clear in that role that he is an excellent actor. And of course watching Natalie Portman in such a sexualized role is classic film making neurosis...at once seeing the girl and this sexual being emerging...she was perfect for the part.

I was struck about how distant I felt from the film. It does not suck the viewer in emotionally, however there was truth in the film. The truth about how people betray themselves and others, truth about the selfishness of wanting something and taking it and then feeling guilt but not regretting the taking. Truth about people ultimately not really caring enough about those they profess to love to say no to something or someone they desire.

Ultimately it left me feeling that people want different things from relationships, yes men and women clearly want different things from relationships, but even more than that...we want honesty from others, yet often don't have enough insight into ourselves to be honest.

In small moments I would think about who was in the audience. There were maybe 10 high school girls (thinking they were going to see a romantic comedy), 2 middle age couples, and 2 college age girls. Occasionally I would find myself stepping out of the film thinking hmmm.... wonder what the teenagers girls are thinking of all this in your face sexual games, and then thinking the men were probably thinking...this is better than I thought it would be.
post #14 of 37
Finally watched it, it was a pretty good acting showcase populated by horrible characters who do horrible things, with simple and effective direction from Nichols.

I dont think anyone was in love at all in this film, even though we keep hearing them shout "I love you!" every five minutes. Portman's character sums it all up nicely near the end where she tells Dan she doesnt see his love, its all just words. The internet scene indeed was hilarious, and Portman's little twist at the end is also a good way of making this movie last for repeat viewings, one of her scenes in the strip club suddenly changes drastically on second viewing; "Plain Jane".

I think I liked Owen's performance the most, the guy is on fire, and brutally honest and coniving. Law's character was a snivelling bastard, and Roberts was quite restrained I found, and like Owen's character says, she may well be a depressive who only feels alive when she's in pain.

Overall a good film, though I wont be watching it again anytime too soon, way too depressing.
post #15 of 37
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I also had a hard time with the fact that there isn't really anyone in the film with the exception of maybe Alice/Jane that is sympathetic.

Seems like agood place to start my take on the movie. There were really no sympathetic characters - maybe even Alice , who at the end is revealed to be more of a games player than we thought.

Where this film scores however is that it always feels slightly stagey yet still manages to deliver an emotional punch. These are all flawed characters who dont really know what they want yet fight to get what they think they want. I was taken with the way that your sympathy was initiallyu drawn to law then Owen then Law again as he loses everything and finds that he was in love with a phantom.

Clive Owen was very powerful as a character who is ultimately the master of manipulation. Jude Law was surprisingly good as a character who thinks he is in control . Julia Roberts turns in a quiet but intense performance which bodesd well for the future. Natalie Portman is always good screen value - i just think she will keep getting better.

Something of a bruising encounter and not the " Chick Flick" i imagined. A lot of peopl;e on this thread have used Brutal and that is a good summary.
post #16 of 37
My girlfriend and I both mutually wanted to check it out so we saw it. I hated it. The situations, the characters, and especially the dialogue, totally unbelievable for me. Clive had a good preformance, but that's about it.
post #17 of 37
I thought it was a great reflection of life and relationships -- sometimes things do just happen.

Wasn't too thrilled w/ Roberts' performance, but some good stuff from Owen.

Powerful.
post #18 of 37

A Closer Look...



Reviewing Closer:

I found largely two types of reviews about the movie.... People either loved it or hated it. I cannot comment on the original play (tho if anyone has a copy of that script, I would be grateful if I could have a copy sent my way...). And I suppose the review all depends on what you were basing the like or dislike on... Was is the cinematic experience or was it personal experience? I draw my thoughts based on the latter. That is, what does the film mean to ME.

Personally, the movie has a certain gravity about it. Perhaps this is due to the set of life experiences that I hold and thus am familiar with or perhaps because I am just curious about the rather sordid lives of four individuals. Their brutal honesty and lack thereof in other instances attracted me. It is one of the few RAW movies of that year.

The characters. It is perhaps easy to judge each one or try and pick the 'best and worst character' however they all hold facets of a person's psyche and emotional composite. And thus, all parts that we love and hate about ourselves. This movie to me, explores what it really means to love ... that it isn't in the fantasy of SAYING you're passionate... but in the doing of LIVING a PASSION.

I found parts of the screenplay to be cinematic art... whereas others were a bit obscure. The fact that they jumped from scene to scene without adequate linkage made it a bit disturbing to follow. By far my favourite scene was the Natalie-Julia photography session... you know the part I'm talking about! That expressed so beautifully the cycle of pain from Hurter to Hurtee. There are many little ironies in the film such as THAT particular photograph being one of Julia's masterpieces...

The other part that I enjoyed was the poignant tying up feature... in the end Natalie left as she had entered Jude's life, an unknown, a free spirit but natural. Sort of like having discovered a sense of self. And it came full circle in that that was how she had left her previous love interest.

I loved the score by Damien Rice 'The Blower's Daughter'. I felt it meshed the emotional and eosteric with the scene and character at the time.

All in all, this movie was an emotional massacre for me simply because... I UNDERSTAND. And this recognition coupled with such elegant portrayals of real-life headspace/heartspace/lust&ficklespace is what made this movie a winner for me. Though, I do not think I can stomach to watch it very much for the same reasons that I admire it.
post #19 of 37
What I really like about this film is some of the inherent in your face honesty, which makes it difficult to watch. The whole feeling boils down to Alice's line.

ALICE: Oh, as if you had no choice? There's a moment, there's always a moment, "I can do this, I can give in to this, or I can resist it." And I don't know when your moment was, but I bet you there was one. I'm gone.

This movie is about fidelity not only sexual but emotional.
post #20 of 37
I think the film boils down tho this...

Larry: Put me out of my misery here, do you desire me? Because I'm being pretty fucking honest about my feelings here.

Alice: Your feelings?

After seeing this film a few times, I think Larry is the most sympathetic character in the film, although as sydneiwylder mentioned, no one is completely innocent here. However, Larry never purports to be something he's not. From the very introduction of his character --perusing sex chatrooms and hooking up with strangers for kinky sex-- we know that he has a dark side to him. He never cheated on Anna during their marraige and only had sex with Alice after Anna dumped him for Dan. When Anna accuses Larry of treating her like a whore, I almost wanted to scream at her, "Well what did you expect? When he met you, he thought you were a whore!"

Alice, on the otherhand, seems the most in tune with her feelings and knows how to manipulate them in people better than anyone else. It's clear she gets off on fucking with people emotionally. In a practical way, it helps her as a stripper to keep the fantasy going for the customer, but she obviously gets off on it in her personal life as well. The most brutal part of the film for me is how she could lie about her identity to Dan for so long. Maybe it started as a game and she soon got caught in the lie, but if you truly loved someone you would come clean and let your partner decide the next course of action. Alice leaving Dan at the end seemed less of an attempt to protect his feelings and more of a way to hurt him one last time.

Dan is just a cad. He had a girlfriend when he first met Alice, so cheating seemed to be a pattern for him. I do think he confuses lust and love and gets caught up in the moment until the next girl comes along that catches his fancy. But I don't think he means to be hurtful. He just doesn't think about anyone's feelings but his own.

Anna, too, seemed to get caught in the moment. People cheat on their spouses all the time for no other reason than they let lust get the better of them. Unfaithful certainly scared alot of people becuase they just didn't understand why Diane Lane's character would cheat. But Anna's affair also seemed like a way for her to not discuss her marital problems. It wasn't until Larry discovered the affair did she bring up the fact that he treated her like a whore.

Communication is key in a relationship and it just didn't seem like any of these characters talked to one another. I keep going back to it, but how in the world could you be with someone for four years and not know their real name? Part of being in love is wanting to know everything about the other person. Talking for hours about anything and everything. While I don't purport to be a love expert, I truly believe no one who truly loved another person would treat each other with the callousness these folks did. Although I certainly understand hurting so badly, you'd want to hurt the other person back so they can feel your pain, I don't undertsand actually going through with it. A sign of a good movie is that it sparks intense reactions, so in that vein I really like this movie. And the performances are definitely superb. But I still can't say I identify with these characters or their actions.
post #21 of 37
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Originally Posted by aine_grrr
What I really like about this film is some of the inherent in your face honesty, which makes it difficult to watch. The whole feeling boils down to Alice's line.

ALICE: Oh, as if you had no choice? There's a moment, there's always a moment, "I can do this, I can give in to this, or I can resist it." And I don't know when your moment was, but I bet you there was one. I'm gone.

This movie is about fidelity not only sexual but emotional.

Agreed. This is one of my favorite of last year. Its rare that we find a movie that's so honest.
post #22 of 37
The performances in CLOSER are raw and unrelenting. The emphasis is always on the actors, and how they react to their volatile environment. It makes for an all-consuming, honest examination of relationships going south. It almost feels like improvisation at times, and that's a testament to Mike Nichols' candid and naturalistic directing.

Great flick.
post #23 of 37
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Originally Posted by Diva
When Anna accuses Larry of treating her like a whore, I almost wanted to scream at her, "Well what did you expect? When he met you, he thought you were a whore!"
I guess that begs the question of how we treat people whore or otherwise…just because you think someone is a whore would never morally give you the right to treat him or her poorly.


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Alice, ... The most brutal part of the film for me is how she could lie about her identity to Dan for so long. Maybe it started as a game and she soon got caught in the lie, but if you truly loved someone you would come clean and let your partner decide the next course of action. Alice leaving Dan at the end seemed less of an attempt to protect his feelings and more of a way to hurt him one last time.

Of course it could be that Alice was truly Alice in every way and that it was no lie. She shared herself and her emotions fully with Dan. The only liar was Dan. Just because Alice was not afraid to say what was on her mind did not make her in control of people. It is obvious when Alice and Anna met that Alice was very hurt by what she could see was happening between Anna and Dan. I guess I don’t see where Anna “fucked” with anyone in the film. I think she was the most honest character.

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Dan is just a cad. He had a girlfriend when he first met Alice, so cheating seemed to be a pattern for him. I do think he confuses lust and love and gets caught up in the moment until the next girl comes along that catches his fancy. But I don't think he means to be hurtful. He just doesn't think about anyone's feelings but his own.
I didn't mean to hurt you...is a lazy selfish excuse. What that really means is that Dan didn't care enough to think about other people when he made his choices...and that is the worst kind of person. Dan gets no pity from me. Dan is just selfish. He is the guy that thinks he can compartmentalize his life and that “what you don’t know…won’t hurt you” attitude is so pervasive and patently false. He is the epitome of self-justification…I only have one life to live so I have to do for myself.

People cheat on their partners for many reasons lust being the most simple of those reasons. Most people cheat on partners primarily due to a “want” for connection, the desire for a separate life, excitement, and for forbidden love. The whole thing is a fantasy.

How could you be in love and not know someone's real name? A name does not define your character, your actions do and Alice was faithful in her actions with Dan.
post #24 of 37
Raw and Unrelenting is a great way to describe the performances in this film. I was kinda upset that it was snubbed at the Oscars.

After watching this, I was left emotionally exhausted.
post #25 of 37
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I guess that begs the question of how we treat people whore or otherwise…just because you think someone is a whore would never morally give you the right to treat him or her poorly.
Yeah, but it didn't seem like he treated Anna poorly. Her only comment was that sexually, he was a bit aggressive. People have all sorts of sexual preferences and it just seems that Larry and Anna's preferences didn't mesh. Not to excuse Larry entirely, but I would think that Anna would either realize she didn't like his style of intercourse early on in their relationship or she would confront him about it later on and try to work it out. She took the cowards way out to avoid dealing with the problem head on and used it as an excuse to hook up with Dan. As Alice said, "There's always that choice" and Alice made hers.

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Of course it could be that Alice was truly Alice in every way and that it was no lie. She shared herself and her emotions fully with Dan.
I'm not denying that at all. But not telling someone your real name for four freaking years is a huge secret to keep. It means that any documents she had- passport, drivers license, etc. - she intentially hid so Dan couldn't find out. I can understand lying to Dan the first day they met becuase it was fun and she figured they wouldn't see each other again. I can even see her lying for a week or so for the same reason. But once she realized that their relationship wasn't temporary and that she was really falling for him, the honest and most real thing she could do is come clean.

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The only liar was Dan. Just because Alice was not afraid to say what was on her mind did not make her in control of people. It is obvious when Alice and Anna met that Alice was very hurt by what she could see was happening between Anna and Dan. I guess I don’t see where Anna “fucked” with anyone in the film. I think she was the most honest character.
Anna may not have lied about her emotions, but she lied about who she was. That seems beyond fucked up to me. Most relationships have trust issues to begin with and the fact that Alice would risk her relationship over something as small as her name is just stupid to me. Dan had no problem lying to Alice so it seems the trust in that relationship was fucked from the get go. Dan's actions, however, still don't excuse Alice's. Also, I again bring up her "lying is the most fun people can have with their clothes on" line. It seems that Alice lying about her name for so long seemed like a game. When Larry confronts her in the strip club, ALice could have easily said she was lying the whole time to Dan. Instead, she played games with Larry, telling him her real name, but without really explaining how that could be.

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I didn't mean to hurt you...is a lazy selfish excuse. What that really means is that Dan didn't care enough to think about other people when he made his choices...and that is the worst kind of person. Dan gets no pity from me. Dan is just selfish. He is the guy that thinks he can compartmentalize his life and that “what you don’t know…won’t hurt you” attitude is so pervasive and patently false. He is the epitome of self-justification…I only have one life to live so I have to do for myself.
Agreed. I never said we should pity Dan, just that his motivations are easier to define. I do pity Larry to some degree, though. He got dragged into the whole mess because Dan thought it'd fun to play a practical joke on him.

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People cheat on their partners for many reasons lust being the most simple of those reasons. Most people cheat on partners primarily due to a “want” for connection, the desire for a separate life, excitement, and for forbidden love. The whole thing is a fantasy.
Definitely, but most people wouldn't say those affairs were based on "love". I think the throwing around of that word in this movie, particularly by Dan and Anna, is what rings as false to me.

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How could you be in love and not know someone's real name? A name does not define your character, your actions do and Alice was faithful in her actions with Dan.
Actions include sharing yourself wholly with the other person, not just emotionally. The first thing most couples do early in the relationship, besides have sex nonstop, is find out who their partner is -- where they grew up, their family history, their past loves, etc. It just seems that Alice was holding a part of herself back. I guess the thing that messes with me is why? It just seems like such a small thing to lie about. Ultimately lying, no matter how big or small, is a deal breaker in relationships. Without trust, relationships cannot survive.
post #26 of 37
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Yeah, but it didn't seem like he treated Anna poorly. Her only comment was that sexually, he was a bit aggressive. People have all sorts of sexual preferences and it just seems that Larry and Anna's preferences didn't mesh.
I took Anna's comment more as metaphor, being treated like a whore rather than feeling like a whore when you have sex.


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I'm not denying that at all. But not telling someone your real name for four freaking years is a huge secret to keep. It means that any documents she had- passport, drivers license, etc. - she intentially hid so Dan couldn't find out. I can understand lying to Dan the first day they met becuase it was fun and she figured they wouldn't see each other again. I can even see her lying for a week or so for the same reason. But once she realized that their relationship wasn't temporary and that she was really falling for him, the honest and most real thing she could do is come clean.
I guess I just get back to the point of knowing someone's real name doesn't mean you know the person. Alice was Alice...and she loved Dan. The juxtaposition of Alice being the most honest character with the late learned fact that Alice wasn't her name is more a commentary on whether we really know people at all.

I also stepped out of the film for a bit and wondered how did she manage her identity.

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Most relationships have trust issues to begin with and the fact that Alice would risk her relationship over something as small as her name is just stupid to me. Dan had no problem lying to Alice so it seems the trust in that relationship was fucked from the get go. Dan's actions, however, still don't excuse Alice's. Also, I again bring up her "lying is the most fun people can have with their clothes on" line. It seems that Alice lying about her name for so long seemed like a game. When Larry confronts her in the strip club, ALice could have easily said she was lying the whole time to Dan. Instead, she played games with Larry, telling him her real name, but without really explaining how that could be.
So...if her name is a small issue than it really isn't as important as her personal honesty. I think what I read in your comments is fear...too harsh maybe. What is a name?


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Definitely, but most people wouldn't say those affairs were based on "love". I think the throwing around of that word in this movie, particularly by Dan and Anna, is what rings as false to me.
Most affairs are not one nighters...they are "love" relationships. The irony is it is often they are love of self not of others.

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Actions include sharing yourself wholly with the other person, not just emotionally. The first thing most couples do early in the relationship, besides have sex nonstop, is find out who their partner is -- where they grew up, their family history, their past loves, etc. It just seems that Alice was holding a part of herself back. I guess the thing that messes with me is why? It just seems like such a small thing to lie about. Ultimately lying, no matter how big or small, is a deal breaker in relationships. Without trust, relationships cannot survive.
Would I feel betrayed if I was involved with someone that didn't tell me their "real" name....sure. Alice may have been trying to reinvent herself. There are many relationships where the learning about you phase is much more one sided...the whole basic premise that there are no equal relationships. I agree trust is important...the point is trust is something to earn over time, not something you should give at the outset.
post #27 of 37
I guess its the trust thing that bothers me most about the name thing. After four years together, whether or not they share personal info about each other's background, you tend to feel safe -- that you know the other person cares for you and wouldn't do anything to hurt you. If I found out that someone lied about their name, I would automatically think, "what else are they lying about?" It just seems like no matter how much of yourself you've given to the other person, if you leave something out, it begs the question "why?" Maybe this says more about me than anyone in the movie, but I just wouldn't be able to trust anyone who would lie about their name for that long.
post #28 of 37
Agreed...the way I feel about her name not being her "real" name in the movie is different than I would feel personally, seeing the film as metaphor in this case. You are right...if my partner lied about their name I would ask the same question. Is there anything real in this relationship or is it all a lie? This is an interesting parallel to History of Violence and Tom's hidden name and history.
post #29 of 37
God, this movie.

It has remained one of my favourites since it's release, and it still fucking kills me. The dialogue is theatrical in a way, but great- 'Like a fist wrapped in blood!'. I do get the impression that your opinion on this movie depends more than most on not just your attitude towards love and relationships but your experience in them- it's just very close to the bone in a lot of ways, even for people who have impulses but don't act on them. I'm rambling now, but thought this is a flick that deserves a bump.
post #30 of 37
Wow, I just watched this a few days ago for the second time, hadn't seen it in about four years, and I was thinking of starting a new thread. Good on you for finding the old one!

Love it, and this movie fully convinced me that the British have the best insults. Clive Owen just dominates this movie, you fucked up slag! I find myself sympathizing with his character the most because, although he sleeps with a hooker, he's completely honest and up front about it. He's always honest, actually, the entire movie.

It's incredible, as well, how the movie is able to take each character from one part of the spectrum to the next. Jude Law's character, with his stubbled smirk, seems the epitome of evil when he's "seducing" Owen over the internet, but later in the movie he's reduced to a pathetic pile of tears.

The only weak spot for me, and it's not even all that weak, is Juliet Robert's character Anna. Roberts does her best to pull the character off, but I never really understood her motivations: why she marries Owen, has an affair with Law, and then gets back with Owen. That portion of the movie felt a little rushed.

As well, it took a little for me to buy Natalie Portman as a stripper. Not the acting, she pulls off slutty seductress incredibly well, but she just doesn't have the body of a stripper. I guess that's my own assumptions. Fascinating, as well, is that her character dies in the play at the end, hit by a car in New York, and the movie seems to hint (with there being a "don't walk" flashing in the background) that the same will happen. Why, as punishment for her lie about her name? Or as a random occurrence of fate?
post #31 of 37
I saw this a couple of months ago and I can't really remember anything about it. I didn't find it too compelling at all.

But I'm glad it exists, if only for this video.
post #32 of 37
I saw this a few years ago and thought it was well made and well acted. Pretty much what you expect and pretty devastating. Having not dealt with this sort of thing I still found it compelling.

Owen really impressed as did Portman. Its well worth watching.
post #33 of 37
The online sex chat scene was the hilarious highlight for me, but yeah it is pretty shitty when things start going south between the characters.
post #34 of 37
Nice bump


need to re watch this again. Owen is perfect in the role and Portman gives me an erection every time.
post #35 of 37
Yeah, this one took me by surprise.

Sad to say, but I was thoroughly uninterested in Closer when it was first released and I did indeed judge it by its cover (promo posters) only to be surprised by how enjoyable it was when I caught accidentally on TV a couple of years ago.
post #36 of 37
This is a fantastically acted, directed and written film. It's also brutal. The scene at the end when Portman enters and declares she no longer loves Law is heartbreaking. It was also one of my biggest fears, no joke.

Owen originally played Law's part on the West End.
post #37 of 37
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Fascinating, as well, is that her character dies in the play at the end, hit by a car in New York, and the movie seems to hint (with there being a "don't walk" flashing in the background) that the same will happen. Why, as punishment for her lie about her name? Or as a random occurrence of fate?
I haven't seen the play, but this ending sounds like an improvement. It adds a note of ambiguity, whereas a car crash is too on the nose and seems to be about punishment from an external force, which wouldn't have much relevance to the story that is told.
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