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Man Can Sue Over Surprise Pregnancy

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http://apnews.myway.com/article/20050224/D88F19S80.html

CHICAGO (AP) - An appeals court said a man can press a claim for emotional distress after learning a former lover had used his sperm to have a baby. But he can't claim theft, the ruling said, because the sperm were hers to keep.

The ruling Wednesday by the Illinois Appellate Court sends Dr. Richard O. Phillips' distress case back to trial court.

Phillips accuses Dr. Sharon Irons of a "calculated, profound personal betrayal" after their affair six years ago, saying she secretly kept semen after they had oral sex, then used it to get pregnant.

He said he didn't find out about the child for nearly two years, when Irons filed a paternity lawsuit. DNA tests confirmed Phillips was the father, the court papers state.

Phillips was ordered to pay about $800 a month in child support, said Irons' attorney, Enrico Mirabelli.

Phillips sued Irons, claiming he has had trouble sleeping and eating and has been haunted by "feelings of being trapped in a nightmare," court papers state.

Irons responded that her alleged actions weren't "truly extreme and outrageous" and that Phillips' pain wasn't bad enough to merit a lawsuit. The circuit court agreed and dismissed Phillips' lawsuit in 2003.

But the higher court ruled that, if Phillips' story is true, Irons "deceitfully engaged in sexual acts, which no reasonable person would expect could result in pregnancy, to use plaintiff's sperm in an unorthodox, unanticipated manner yielding extreme consequences."

The judges backed the lower court decision to dismiss the fraud and theft claims, agreeing with Irons that she didn't steal the sperm.

"She asserts that when plaintiff 'delivered' his sperm, it was a gift - an absolute and irrevocable transfer of title to property from a donor to a donee," the decision said. "There was no agreement that the original deposit would be returned upon request."

Phillips is representing himself in the case. He could not be reached for comment Thursday.

"There's a 5-year-old child here," Mirabelli said. "Imagine how a child feels when your father says he feels emotionally damaged by your birth."
post #2 of 8
Bizarre. I agree with the theft ruling but I'm not so sure about the guy not having a fraud case. The method in which the crazy lady got pregnant combined with the fact she filed a paternity suit seems awful shady to me.
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Awesome! Sperm is a gift, ladies. Remember that.
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I remember Robert Shapiro (One of the lead attorneys of OJ Simpson) wrote a book some time ago about a woman who gets pregnant and the man pushes her to have an abortion. She refuses and so he puts a chemical in her drink that causes her to miscarry the baby. Then when he's brought to trial they use the defense that if the woman doesn't want the child why can she abort it and he cannot.

Fascinating stuff.
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Originally Posted by Nordling
Awesome! Sperm is a gift, ladies. Remember that.
fucking hilarious!

on the topic itself, the biggest things i see about this story is the fact that the woman that did this is a doctor! does no one judging this case even take that into account? also, the woman's lawyer has the nerve to say that the guy should "think of the children" when making his statements? what about the fact that the kid's mother had to trick the father just to conceive the kid? or didn't even let the father know the kid was his for a couple of years until she felt she needed some money to help raise the child? i would claim emotional distress just like the guy did, but then i'd go further and sue for custody since what kind of mother is this chick gonna be if she needed to go to these extremes just to have a seed?
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Originally Posted by Nordling
Awesome! Sperm is a gift, ladies. Remember that.
And would a little "thank you" now and then be so hard?

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"There was no agreement that the original deposit would be returned upon request."
Coffee, meet monitor. Monitor, coffee.
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[/Jason Mewes] " 'ats fucked up!" [/Jason Mewes]

I'd be pissed if I was this guy. I heard about this this morning on the news. That she did it is one thing. That she sued for child support later is another thing. Yeah, if I was in his shoes, I'd try to get custody. It's not the kid's fault that the mother is messed up. And I wouldn't want her raising my child.

Besides, didn't Bill Clinton prove that these two didn't legally have sex?
post #8 of 8
I would be a little more pissed off that this guy had to pay child support. She got pregnant due to artifical insemation without informing him. I would pay the child support anyway but I would demand custody of the kid.

The fact that Child Support was award shows how outdated the current divorce/custody laws are.
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