A good age to lose your virginity?

Oh, damn it all!

I've got ten days.

So religious people are all troubled? Same with all single Asian women (Muslim, Indian, etc.)?

Well...

Devin is like the Miyagi of bait threads.

Hey, even if the thread's a gag/bait, it doesn't make the potential discussion any less interesting.

It couldn't possibly get less interesting than it is now.

Touche, sir.

Devin clearly doesn't have enough threads to post his usual brand of smug, condescending bullshit in so he has to start his own.

He could also want the attention too, and by 'could also' I mean 'definitely does'.

You responding to the thread sure showed him then!

Just doing my part, Mr. Whitehead. Just doing my part.

I mean, it DOES take a village to fan the flames of a man-child's ego.

Forty.

ZING!

Classy edit.

I give up...what did you change?

Edit - nevermind...I figured it out.

I do what I can.

And who is that a zing to, exactly?

Actually, I was just amused by the movie reference...

And a very clever one, indeed.

At times like these, I'm glad I'm too stupid to catch most of what goes on around here.

Does this apply to both men and women?

How big an age difference are you thinking?

I really don't know, but I have a lot of girl friends my age (18) who don't want to have sex.

I have very very few guy friends who don't want to have sex. I can count them on one finger.

gotcha

This is just mean, as you're not even giving the most timid of people that entire college freshman year to get some poon.

But seriously, first threesome before 20. Otherwise, give up.

...as if Muslim and Indian women aren't married off at 14.

I recommend 5 and have been working overtime to do my part to make sure no children suffer the indignities of being un-penetrated at age 6.

...Dave Davis?

There ya go.

OMG! There are people who can't get lucky?!?

Imho

For secular, non religous, non morally cultered people, 16 for men. 17 or 18 for women.


If you fall under non secular or in a morally cultered up ringing, I say IF you don't wait until marrage, then it should be 18 for men 21 for women.

How many stars should you wait for?

***1/2?

*****?

I'm surprised nobody's made the wax off joke yet.

I think the answer is whenever you're ready. For different people it's different ages. For some it could be 16 for others it's when they're in college and some people don't want to have sex until they're married. They're not troubled, they're just doing their own thing. No one's wrong or right on the age they have sex, it's a personal preference.

So what kind of thread is this Devin? Are you just posting it so people know that you've had sex before the age eighteen? If so, congratulations. You're a winner in my book. The prize is in the mail.

I've always assumed that girls lose their virginity before guys age-wise, due to the fact that so many girls tend to date/bang guys older than them (at least in high school that was the case, with the upperclassmen always going after freshman and sophomore girls).

It was too cheap and easy, much like Devin himself....



....ah, who am I fooling, I'm just angry I didn't think of it.

Yep, that's the way I see it, it's too personal an experience to have a standard.

Yeah.

If you're a virgin.

I think you can make it up to, but not much past turning 20 without having a shag and not sustain too much physcological damage, but I don't think it would be a good idea to hold off for too much longer after that. I wouldn't really see any sane and sensible reason one would want to, honestly.

My experience has been that the girls I knew tended to lose it very young (13, 14), basically in situations like the one you describe.

Somehow, though, my own personal experience was just the opposite, because I kept ending up with girls that were between 1-3 years older than me while i was in high school.

I kinda think any age above 16 is appropriate. Though if you're a guy and you've been trying to get laid and you're like 20 then...uh...maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself. If you haven't even had a date in that time, then you need to get out there man. If you have had lots of dates and exes but no sex.....you have something to worry about.

Girls, if they're TRYING to lose their virginity and haven't done it before 18...they're either fucking ugly or fucking fucked up in the head. If they're not really trying but also aren't waiting for marriage then any age is appropriate I suppose but I think they should do it eventually and before marriage. I know some girls who got married and figured out they didn't like sex. I know TONS of girls who SAY they wanna wait till marriage but in REALITY don't. They just say that so people don't think they're whory or easy or anything.

Personally, I don't like virgin girls.
1. You have to wonder WHY they're virgins in the first place.
2. You pretty much have to teach them and lead them by the hand on how to use a penis. This can be annoying and troublesome. It's almost like teaching someone to drive. More grip. WOah, too much teeth. Spread legs more. HIps up. OWWW WTF I think you broke something!
3. Now there's penetration. She is in discomfort because her orifice hasn't been stretched like this before then you have to contend with the hymen....which occasionally will lead to even more pain and discomfort for your victim...er...virgin. Congrats, you are now the WORST sex this girl has ever had, but luckily since its the only sex she's ever had she doesn't have fuck all else to compare it with.

4. There's always the chance you fuck her up in the head, like a guy did to one of my gfs. Because of that douche, she would lie still during sex and would never act "into it". Thanks alot, asshole. You broke her.

Lol

This is exactly the way my last girlfriend was. So being the nice guy I am, I didn't try to make any moves until it was very clear while we were making out one time that she really did want to do it.

I've had to contend with this in my marriage. When my wife gave birth to her son, her then husband was present and later told her that watching the birth was "gross" and that he now found her vagina "disgusting."

Well, 9 years and one divorce later I'm with her and she STILL won't let me go down on her unless she is drunk because she has this freaking complex about her hoo ha. Thanks a lot, asshole. You broke her.

thats a great line.

Wow. With a sensitive, caring guy like you, I can't imagine why you'd have any trouble getting a girl to do just what you want.

Of course there's a learning curve with a virgin. There's a learning curve with any partner. The sad part is, most girls are too passive or concerned that they'll seem too slutty, so they won't try to train you back. Don't let this mislead you into thinking you're doing everything right.

True.

Society is messed up in the aspect that if a girl remotely shows an interest in sex that she is somehow a "slut", but guys show an absurd interest and it's somehow normal.

I think the "right" way to do things varies from partner to partner and good communication is key. One thing working for one person may not work at all with another.

Virgins still don't appeal to me as much. Sorry. Truth be told, I think they appeal to guys who like the feeling of having complete control over a girl. Virgin is like a blank slate, you can train her, mold her, anyway you want, make her do things the way you want them. I'm not sure. I don't like being in complete control of someone else.

The one and only right way to do it is to start off with a massage. Preferrably the shoulders, neck and back.

Don't forget the arms and spleen.