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How far would you go?

post #1 of 48
Thread Starter 
Well, this part of the board is pretty much dead so lets have some discussion.

How far would you go for your partner? Say that he/she was the love of your life... would you do everything they wanted to make them happy? Are you willing to step out of your comfort zone in order to ensure that they get off? Say your wife wants to tie you up and whip you.. but that's not your thing... do you do it to please her, or stand your ground? Or your boyfriend wants you to take it up the ass, and thats a no no... do you do it because he wants you to? I think its a natural thing for us to want to please the other person... but what's the line?
post #2 of 48
My line is where things go in my butt. Anything short of that, including dressing up like a panda bear and roaring, I'd do.
post #3 of 48
First, let me say thanks to Shelby for returning and bringing the "intelligent" part of the forum description with her.

My line involves any bodily fluid/excrement not typically associated with sex. Blood, feces, urine, mucus, and so forth are right out.

I'm sure there are some other places I wouldn't go, but I'm not creative or worldy enough to speak of them.
post #4 of 48
Ripoll's butt line is probably more like a circle but I agree. Anything where shit or piss is involved I'm out. Bodilly fluids other than excrement shouldn't be problem though according to me.
post #5 of 48
Goldberg beat me to the post while I was distracted, so yeah, what he said, no blood or mucus. I didn't even know people did that.
post #6 of 48
I'll join the chorus of not wishing to play with excrement and mucus. Urine's a maybe, and I do enjoy stuff dealing with blood every now and then.

Is it odd that Shelby's two examples required no coaxing from me whatsoever?
post #7 of 48
Yeah, the shit and piss would be too much as well.
post #8 of 48
I'm fairly deep into the whole S&M concept...maybe I'll age out of it, oh well.

Excrement = big no no...

and the butt thing, apart from prostate stimulation, I'm fairly averse to it.
post #9 of 48
First time I have ever posted in here and of course it took the greatness of Shelby to do this.

I'm open for anything except someone shitting or pissing on me.
post #10 of 48
Shit and piss freak me out as well. I do enjoy ear wax. So many erotic capabilities.
post #11 of 48
I'm pretty much the same as everyone else. No shit, no piss, no mucous...blood and pain are cool though. I just don't like things that are unhygenic.
post #12 of 48
Poo is where i draw the line.
Everything else is excellent.
post #13 of 48
I don't avoid women. But I do deny them my essence.
post #14 of 48
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by AlmightyShmun
I'll join the chorus of not wishing to play with excrement and mucus. Urine's a maybe, and I do enjoy stuff dealing with blood every now and then.

Is it odd that Shelby's two examples required no coaxing from me whatsoever?
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Originally Posted by PsYcHwArD101
I'm fairly deep into the whole S&M concept...maybe I'll age out of it, oh well.
I love it that these are the people that I am trying to get together with here in Texas.

And to answer my own question: Children, Animals, Shit, Piss, Vomit are my limits. But then again, the people that I have had sex with have always been pretty much vanilla... Haven't really asked me to do anything outrageous, but if they did I wouldn't be against it. I am a people pleaser, and I like to make people happy. My partner's need would be my main concern... but I am just that kinda girl
post #15 of 48
Pretty much agreed with everybody here, though piss is up for debate. I would draw the line at her pissing on me, but if she wanted to be pissed on by me I could probably be coaxed into obliging. No blood, shit, mucous, vomit, animals, or children.
post #16 of 48
Usually my mate needs to answer this question, because I sure as hell don't.
post #17 of 48
Thread Starter 
A little bit off the subject, but I have major phobias as far as bodily functions are concerned. I used to talk to this one guy that was amazed that in a 12 year relationship with a man, I had NEVER once seen a guy take a piss. Never gone into the bathroom with him in there, and vise versa... no one is allowed in there with me. That is just a big no-no and probably the only thing I really stand my ground on. He even made a joke that he would make me watch him take a piss JUST because of my..well, its not really a phobia, but let's just say aversion to bodily functions...

..I'm proud to say that I STILL have never seen a guy take a piss, haha.
post #18 of 48
... NO ONE here wants to play with piss or poop?

Aww.


post #19 of 48
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Originally Posted by Shelby
I'm proud to say that I STILL have never seen a guy take a piss, haha.
You haven't lived.
post #20 of 48
Thread Starter 
Good Point.

I'll make sure on my deathbed, as the Priest reads me my Last Rights, I ask him to take a piss for me and let me watch. So I can say that I have lived my life to the fullest.

post #21 of 48
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Originally Posted by Shelby
A little bit off the subject, but I have major phobias as far as bodily functions are concerned. I used to talk to this one guy that was amazed that in a 12 year relationship with a man, I had NEVER once seen a guy take a piss. Never gone into the bathroom with him in there, and vise versa... no one is allowed in there with me. That is just a big no-no and probably the only thing I really stand my ground on. He even made a joke that he would make me watch him take a piss JUST because of my..well, its not really a phobia, but let's just say aversion to bodily functions...

..I'm proud to say that I STILL have never seen a guy take a piss, haha.

That's another question, though, isn't it? What would you avoid doing or make your partner avoid doing? I could care less about bodily functions, at least insofar as I don't mind sharing a bathroom. But at the same time, I could humor a partner's wish to avoid that as well.

To answer your first question, though, I'm not into anything involving manure (including anal, let's face it, that's where the manure comes from); I would do prostate stimulation if my partner preferred. I'm not into urine. Blood, as far as sex during menstruation goes, is fine. (Menstruation, a bloody waste of fucking time, as they say.) Blood as in pain/cutting not so much. Mucous... well, I'm not sure what involves mucous, but it isn't exactly appealing so I'd say no in general (I mean, I'm not going to kick the man out of bed if he sneezes once, but I'm not into mucous as a sex thing). Mild forms of pain, dominance, submission, bondage, role playing, etc, etc - well, we can discuss it and try what seems fun to us both, and if it works, good and if not, then not.

Oh, and all forms of non-consenting partners are out, as are third parties (I'm not an exhibitionist, a voyeur, or into sharing).
post #22 of 48
I guess shit & piss was going to be the obvious excluded element in a discussion like this, but I'll break rank and say that while excrement is definitely out, I'm "open" to piss so long as I'm not the one getting pissed on.

Actually, scratch that, urine anywhere below the neck wouldn't kill me, but the face is off limits.

I define myself as being "fluid", but anything larger than 6 inches in length isn't coming anywhere near my butt.
post #23 of 48
Here's the thing that's shockingly unaddressed in this. I would probably try anything once. And if I liked it I'd go for it again and again. But I'm definitely predisposed to certain things, and disliking others. If, say, a woman wants me to piss on her, I might try it, but if it made me too uncomfortable I'm not going to keep doing it. Relationships are about compromise, but when it comes to fetishes, people who don't have them have their limits, and I'm sure a girl who wants to be pissed on wouldn't enjoy a half-hearted urination. All relationships have compromises, but when it comes to the slightly weirder stuff, I'll admit I have my limits, especially when it comes to, say, choking. I think with stuff like that, to make a relationship work, it may have to be on the menu, but aqlso have to be not every meal. Sometimes the problem with people who have strong fetishes is that they need that every time.
post #24 of 48
I was actually going to bring up the idea of someone asking me to do something like choking or slapping them, but that's not happening w/ me, the idea of leaving bruises or ligature marks on someone doesn't appeal to me, if anything I'd be worried that it would come back to haunt me.

I enjoy being single and I don't see myself entering a "mature", long-term relationship anytime soon, so the idea that I'd constantly be called upon to satisfy a partner's fetish/kink to the point where my comfort level is broken isn't something I'm worried about.

I'll leave the worrying to people that are in a committed relationship.
post #25 of 48
Thread Starter 
Quote:
half-hearted urination.
Now THERE'S a phrase you don't see everyday.

There are things that I did for my ex in order to make him happy that I may or may not have wanted on my own... 3somes, partner swapping, etc. Some of those things may have been detrimental in our relationship, because after the kiddo was born and I settled down, the EX was kinda like, what the hell happened to our kinky sex life? I just didnt have the energy or time to keep up 3somes and such.

Would I go that route again? Maybe. ONLY is it wasn't a serious relationship. I just don't think I could do all that again with someone that I planned on getting married to. Of course, when you fancy yourself in love with someone, its very hard to deny them what they want.
post #26 of 48
I don't agree. What sort of love are you talking about if you deny who you are to make the relationship work?
post #27 of 48
Thread Starter 
Welcome to my world, sweetheart.

I don't agree with it either, but I still find myself doing it over and over. That is actually one of my biggest issues that I have. Just wanting to please so much that I would be (and have in the past) willing to do anything for the other person. All in the name of 'love'. Even if, in some cases, it's not something that I am comfortable with. That's why I started this thread, to just see what other's opinions were...
post #28 of 48
My feeling is any relationship where you do things that aren't you to keep your partner around will eventually fail. I don't think it's possible with things that are so hard-wired like sexuality to keep faking it. If a girl wants to be choked during sex, I'm not the person for it, partly because it does nothing for me, and partly because I can't not see the psychological ramifications. But if it's treated like a public shag in the car, or a trip to the beach for a weekend of playing around, then I guess I can make it work.

Though there may be things like True Love, ultimately, as you get older, you realize that there are a sea of people out there that you could concieveably be just as happy with as the next one over, and it's all about timing and all sorts of other things. There's always other people. What it boils down to is self-worth, and when you start selling that out, the relationship is doomed to fail.
post #29 of 48
Fluids, as mentioned are out. As Shelby's mentioned, I don't think I could do the whole partner swap/3some thing either. I'll admit that I'm a touch jealous and I don't think I could deal with the ramifications of letting my wife have sex with someone else (or vice versa, for that matter). If the relationship wasn't serious then, hell yea, whatever.

Agreed though, compromising to make your partner happy should have it's limits otherwise you're just going to end up a rug for him or her to walk all over. If the compromise is appreciate and returned somehow, then that may be a different story.

ETA: Ixnay on the orpsesCay
post #30 of 48
I'd just like to say, even if you find it squeamish, every sexual relationship needs a bit of strangulation experimentation.
post #31 of 48
And I hope you die like Michael Hutchence.
post #32 of 48
I've always wondered what makes people go for the wild stuff like choking and vomiting? What need is that trying to fill?

I see the appeal of threesomes, swapping too, but the thought of taking a stinky, nasty hershey squirt on my significant other makes my skin crawl.

Why can't normal sex get them off anymore, why must they resort to getting a cleaveland steamer pushed out onto their chest?
post #33 of 48
Haven't you people learned anything from CSI? Any sexual activity that isn't missionary position with your wife or husband in your bedroom under the covers with the lights off will result in you getting gruesomely murdered.
post #34 of 48
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Originally Posted by Shelby
There are things that I did for my ex in order to make him happy that I may or may not have wanted on my own... 3somes, partner swapping, etc. Some of those things may have been detrimental in our relationship, because after the kiddo was born and I settled down, the EX was kinda like, what the hell happened to our kinky sex life? I just didnt have the energy or time to keep up 3somes and such.
As far as I'm concerned, if what one's partner wants is sex with other people, then they don't want to be partners with you anymore. Involving outside people *always* screws up the (already abnormal) primary relationship. I've also known people who tried to make long term more-than-two-people relationships work and they never do. It's hard enough with two, three just ain't gonna happen.
post #35 of 48
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Originally Posted by JacknifeJohnny
I define myself as being "fluid", but anything larger than 6 inches in length isn't coming anywhere near my butt.
So I take that 5 would be alright for thee? :P

That being said, due to my un-annonymous screen name, I would not feel comfy sharing what I would and would not do, but I will say this... I would never, ever, ever let anyone pinch a loaf on me. For a billion farking bucks.
post #36 of 48
I agree with the fluid part and the "put stuff in my ass" parts, but for my personnal knowledge, could someone explain to me how the fuck do you use mucus in a sexual relationship ?

I've heard of some weird things in my life, done some, but mucus ?

What the hell do you do ? Sneeze on your partner ?
post #37 of 48
Thread Starter 
One of these days my curiosity will be my downfall.

Well, lets just say that I took one for the team and googled 'Mucus Fetish' & 'Snot Fetish' and they all wind up going to sites that deal with Spitting Fetishes. Don't. Just don't do it.
post #38 of 48
I have this weird "Fuck, I just gotta check it out" feeling... Thank god Rockstar Supernova is just about to start!
post #39 of 48
Quote:
Originally Posted by General Zod
I've always wondered what makes people go for the wild stuff like choking and vomiting?
Choking should not be grouped in with the others. A little bit of strangulation increases the trust level between a couple. If you really love your mate, you know neither of you will truly go too far. When you slightly close off their breathing, the rest of the body gets tighter, making an eventual orgasm seem far more intense. Highly reccommended, and really not all that disturbing.
post #40 of 48
Quote:
Originally Posted by Patrick Ripoll
My line is where things go in my butt.
For someone who has a tough time getting laid, you sure are a picky fucker.
post #41 of 48
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Originally Posted by Shelby
Don't. Just don't do it.
I just came around Nasal sex.

Fuck that. Fabfunk and his pseudo-disturbing chocking fetish is tame.
post #42 of 48
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Originally Posted by fabfunk
A little bit of strangulation increases the trust level between a couple.
You get it wrong man. Getting married and buying a house increases the trust level between a couple.

Strangling the one you love will probably increase your thrust level but thinking that's a healthy relationship is akin to fucking a puma. One day it will turn on you in a bad bad way.
post #43 of 48
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Originally Posted by fabfunk
A little bit of strangulation increases the trust level between a couple.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Martin Savage
You get it wrong man. Getting married and buying a house increases the trust level between a couple.
You've both got it wrong. Marriage and buying a house that increases the trust IS the strangulation.

I kid, I kid.
Or I am bitter. Could be both.
post #44 of 48
Quote:
Originally Posted by Shelby
Or I am bitter. Could be both.
So you're the Puma ?

;-P
post #45 of 48
Quote:
Originally Posted by fabfunk
Choking should not be grouped in with the others. A little bit of strangulation increases the trust level between a couple. If you really love your mate, you know neither of you will truly go too far. When you slightly close off their breathing, the rest of the body gets tighter, making an eventual orgasm seem far more intense. Highly reccommended, and really not all that disturbing.
Dude, the only thing I've choked is my chicken. There is no way in hell that I would ever do that to my girl, unless the bitch cheats on me then she's dead fucking meat...

But seriously, I knew a guy in high school who did the choke while you stroke thing, but he ended up dead from using a belt to strangle himself while he jacked off.

His family found him hanging in the closet, buck naked with his cock still in his hand and the belt tied around his neck. If that didn't kill him, the embarrassment would have.

What a stupid way to go.

Fucking loser.
post #46 of 48
That had to be the mother of all come shots, though. Would anybody try this...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Space_docking

Frankly I don't think this is a real thing. Though the page says there is a video link, I dare not click on it.
post #47 of 48
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I do enjoy ear wax. So many erotic capabilities.
Moltisanti, you wanker! I laughed so hard at that line I almost completely inhaled my Marlboro.

Keep it up, furball....
post #48 of 48
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Originally Posted by Mad Man Mundt
That had to be the mother of all come shots, though. Would anybody try this...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Space_docking

Frankly I don't think this is a real thing. Though the page says there is a video link, I dare not click on it.

(idiomatic) a sexual practice in which frozen excrement in longish cylindrical form, wrapped in clingfilm or contained in a condom, is used like a dildo.

Damn.
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