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Using The Bathroom In Front Of The Opposite Sex

post #1 of 16
9/13/06 at 8:31pm
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Recently, I found myself in bed with a semi-drunken one-night stand, and when we finally went to sleep, I was still pretty awake and we were both pretty much sober. I think the knowledge was mutual that this was a one-time thing, so we weren't pursuing any "love".

Anyway, she gets out of bed at 3 AM or so and goes over to the bathroom, which is adjacent to my bed. I notice that she doesn't close the door. Aftera few minutes, she emerges, curls up to me in bed and says, "Sorry, I just took a dump" before falling asleep again.

Now is it just me or was this a major breach of ettiquite? And would it have felt appropriate if she had merely peed with the door open in my place? I have no problem with her using my bathroom, but she felt as if there was nothing wrong with leaving the door open, which was odd. Could it have been implying anything?

At what point in any sort of relationship do you feel comfortable peeing in front of your mate? And would you EVER feel comfy shitting in front of them?
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post #2 of 16
9/13/06 at 8:35pm
Stop banging female shot putters.
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post #3 of 16
9/13/06 at 8:38pm
I'd be more concerned over the fact that nowhere in your description were the words "and then she wiped and flushed".
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post #4 of 16
9/13/06 at 8:45pm
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Originally Posted by Crow
I'd be more concerned over the fact that nowhere in your description were the words "and then she wiped and flushed".

I'm also concerned with anyone who needs to announce "I just took a dump."

To answer the question, though, once you're intimate enough to be naked and share bodily fluids, I don't think there is anything wrong with presuming you're also at a level that walking around the house naked and not closing doors when using the bathroom and otherwise presuming that you're intimate is normal. Of course, I don't do one night stands, so maybe the intimacy ettiquette is different when you don't already know, for example, your partner's name or disease-free status.
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post #5 of 16
9/13/06 at 10:23pm
that strikes me as an awfully uncomfortable situation. i dont take a leak without having a tap running. but thats probably just my own thing.
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post #6 of 16
9/13/06 at 10:26pm
I find it odd that someone can propose "breach of etiquette" when discussing a "drunken one night stand."
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post #7 of 16
9/14/06 at 12:10am
Unless you had planned on fucking her in the ass, what's the big deal?

I don't do the open-door policy with pooping simply because no one needs to see/smell my shit. It's mine and mine alone. If nothing else, who wants to be seen in ass-wiping, crouch-mode? Not I.
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post #8 of 16
9/14/06 at 12:37am
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Originally Posted by fabfunk
Aftera few minutes, she emerges, curls up to me in bed and says, "Sorry, I just took a dump..."
...followed by "You must've really jarred something loose back there."
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post #9 of 16
9/14/06 at 3:30am
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Originally Posted by TheCynic
that strikes me as an awfully uncomfortable situation. i dont take a leak without having a tap running. but thats probably just my own thing.
Same here, I'm so neurotic about my bathroom privacy that I have a hard time imagining someone being so comfortable with public shitting.
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post #10 of 16
9/14/06 at 3:45am
I don't think I would feel comfortable with the whole dumping thing. I do not at all mind whizzing in front of anybody. I have even had women offer to hold "it" for me. I have asked them to try and write their name in the snow. Of course this was all drunken high jinks - so I would have to say the whole etiquette thing would be out the window in this case as well.
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post #11 of 16
9/14/06 at 7:57am
A friend of mine has a theory that the "Magic" of a relationship is essentially over when public defecation and farting in bed become the norm.
Im inclined to agree.
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post #12 of 16
9/14/06 at 8:11am
I've actually tried to hasten the exit of either myself or the other person (depending on who's place we're at) so I can have my poopin' privacy.
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post #13 of 16
9/14/06 at 9:33am
I love that fabfunk says that this thread was inspired by a one night stand, when in reality this very discussion was started Shelby in THIS THREAD.
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post #14 of 16
9/14/06 at 10:12am
Have you even had sex before Fabfunk?
With someone who is
A) Not yourself
B) Alive?
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post #15 of 16
9/15/06 at 2:05am
....so I'm bangin' this broad the other night, and afterwards she's like "Diceman, I just took a dump." So I says to her "that's because I just fucked the shit out of you you dumb slut" Oh.

(I apologize)
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post #16 of 16
9/15/06 at 6:29am
Ebert wept!
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