Not something I "achieved," simply something that has happened -- something I was beginning to think wasn't possible. It came from out of the blue, and from an entirely unexpected direction...
I've never believed in the concept of "the one". You hear all these stories about meeting that one person and instantly knowing you will spend the rest of your life with them. I've always scoffed at this notion, believing there was no such thing ... that relationships grew into deep love instead of beginning there. Now that it's happened, now that our beginning position is already of deep care and passion, now that we're building from that foundation, I can see how mysterious and wonderful it is. She was out there all the time. Now we've met and begun. We will be married within the year. No question. She knows it. I know it. We only have to be conscious of building this relationship. I'm ready and willing to go on this adventure, this journey. I'm an explorer in an entirely new realm, and I have a traveling partner of amazing depth, sensitivity and receptiveness.
She's 14 years my junior. She's a Native American. She's an artist. She's an old soul. She's an "embracer" of all that life brings and offers, appreciative of the light and the darkness, seeing the picture as a whole, not isolating out only the good and ignoring the difficult. She's intuitive, impulsive, introspective, intelligent ... she's also responsible and goal-driven. She's everything I've ever looked for in a relationship. Damned sexy.
No, nothing I've "achieved". Just something I've found. Something I've been blessed with. The love of my life.